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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

He makes me feel unwanted and ugly and I am starting to feel like cheating is the only way.

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5272 days ago

1 February 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I've been in a relationship for 8 years now.Of course my significant other watches porn and at first I had no problem with it but now it seems to be a huge problem for me. We went to having sex all the time to where he couldn't keep his hands off me to 1x every month or two.I... (218 words)

Torn between two men and when something goes wrong I always run to the other one.

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6119 days ago

1 February 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I have two men in my life and can't choose between them. It is causing me great turmoil, so much so, I have lost my job and I am overall not handling things well. I had (guy 1) as the end all be all. Completely fallin' in love with him and wanted to marry him. I got very sic... (274 words)

Betrayed by my best friend and ex...but I still want to be her friend.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6137 days ago

1 February 2008 (F) age 30-35 - My bf left me for who i thought was my best friend because he said that he had feelings for her. It got to the point where i had to ask him why he even went out with me in the first place and he said he doesn't know. I then asked if he was leaving me for my best friend a... (561 words)

Worried my penis is too large...what can I do??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6137 days ago

1 February 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi, this may sound peculiar to most men, but I'm in fact afraid that my penis is too large. When erect it reaches eight and a half inches, and though this may not be gigantic, it still doesn't bode well. My girlfriend reassures me that it is nothing to be ashamed of, but none... (122 words)

Is he trying to tell me something, reading out this text infront of me??

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6136 days ago

1 February 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi, There is this guy tht has told me he likes me, but hasn't said it to my face just over msn, this was a few months ago but since he hasnt mentioned anything and has carried on like we are friends. However, there is awkwardness between us and recently i have been getting qui... (175 words)

Is this just a passing phase??

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6137 days ago

1 February 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi i'm 16 , and i'm a bit lost at the moment. I'm attracted to girls and boys, but i've never really had the chance to experiment with boys. I also like to wear girls clothes. Is this just a passing phase? Will it pass in time? What should i do? ... (52 words)

What should I do about my bfs crush??

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6137 days ago

1 February 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I think my boyfriend of 3.5 years has a crush on another girl and I was wondering what you all think... should I be worried about it? He has never told me and I have never asked but when she is around and he talks to her, I can sense an attraction. I don't think she has a cr... (125 words)

I feel pathetic over feeling hurt cause my friend likes another girl.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6137 days ago

1 February 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Im in love with a friend, he's not close and he is 2 years older than me. I've told him that i like him but he doesnt feel the same. We are still friends and talk to each other but, it hurts soo much knowing that he likes another girl. Please help me, i feel so pathetic!... (57 words)

Has he lost interest in me after having sex??

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6135 days ago

1 February 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been dating this guy for a while. We finally had sex with him a week ago. Now he dosn't call as much and dosn't seem too interested in me. Was he just using me? ... (36 words)

How can I be strong for if we meet again??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6135 days ago

1 February 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - Here goes.... I am a single Mum and have had a very difficult year emotionally. I was with a guy for one year, supporting him emotionally, helping to look after his son and basiclly opened up my life to him. I was studying for my final placement in a school. I have never fe... (1504 words)

Will I last long when I am having sex for the first time??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6137 days ago

1 February 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - Should I last long on my first time of having sex?... (11 words)

Why has my gf suddenly decided we have to wait for sex??

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6137 days ago

1 February 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - My girlfriend and I have been together for 2.5 years this month, and the last 7 months have been without sex. We're both in our mid/upper 20s and have goals of starting a family, and up until about 7 months ago we had a perfectly normal sex life. I love this woman more than ... (508 words)

Now that we're goin out, he just ignores me

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6137 days ago

1 February 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok I asked this guy out cuz he seemed nice and I've known him for a long time. He was never mean to me...and now that we're goin out, he just ignores me!I've been gettin really peeved at him...the only time he ever talks to me is to ask me if I'm mad at him and then he walks ... (64 words)

His contact with other women is killing my feelings & desires towards him

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 6135 days ago

1 February 2008 (F)

age - I'm a little embarrassed, but I need advise again. My boyfriend continues to have contact with his ex's and I have gotten to the point that I am becoming so resentful towards him, that I am beginning to feel like I am not attracted to him anymore. Just today, he received an e... (208 words)

In love with my best friend who's also my flatmate!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6130 days ago

1 February 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm crazy about my flatmate. I'd jus come out of a 2 year relationship before uni. In the first few months my flatmate and I were best friends..he was always there for me, and I felt i had a friend for life. Then in November, we got very drunk and slept with each other. This ... (191 words)

I feel qualified, but why can't I get a break? why can't I get a job?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6137 days ago

1 February 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - It seems as though everyone else catches breaks but me. People always get other people jobs, and whenever I have been in need of a job, no one offers to help me. I did have a couple interviews at good places, I did great on all the testing and actual interviews, but I never ... (169 words)

I'm in love with my ex. I feel like life is passing me by! What should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6137 days ago

1 February 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi everyone, Im feeling really low right now, i am in love with my ex bf and was hoping we would get back together but i dont know what to do, I feel like nothing is happening in my life although i am busy in college doing a great degree etc., and i should be happy but im not, ... (182 words)

Is it safe to have a month and a half period?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6137 days ago

1 February 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Is it safe to have your period for À month and half and ? are not pregnet ... (20 words)

We have been very distant after a miscarriage. What can we do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6137 days ago

1 February 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - My girlfriend and i have been dating for over six months now. Everything was fine until she miscarried our baby after 5 weeks. Ever since the news she has become very distant and nothing i do is ever right. She has bad mood swings, father abandonment issues, and 2 horrible ... (150 words)

I feel arkward duing Sex. How can I overcome my embarressment?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6137 days ago

1 February 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been with my guy on and off for almost a year. He’s ALWAYS been amazing in bed. I am VERY satisfied with what he has to offer. Only problem is I have some issues with myself which really makes sex with difficult. (On my fault) I am very self conscious about my body. I ... (228 words)

We've been in a relationship for 5 years... I'm not sure I want to be anymore. Any advice?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6134 days ago

1 February 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - Hi Everyone. I'm currently in a relationship but I'm really not sure that I want to be anymore. We have been seeing each other about 5 years in total. We don't live together and have no kids between us. We both have kids from previous relationships however. We split up ab... (256 words)

Girl kissed my bloke, they were both drunk, how do I trust him in the future?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6137 days ago

1 February 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyrfriend of 5 months told me the other day that his friend came on to him and kissed him but he pulled away. They were both drunk and he said it ment nothing. As he is 2 years older i was always curiouse but i trusted him, he said it ment nothing and he totlaly understood ... (97 words)

Hes with a gf, she abuses him, I mailed her, now he wont speak to me!!!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6137 days ago

1 February 2008 (?) age 41-50 - I have been in a realtionship for 2 yrs with an man witha GF. He says he loves me and he is leaving her. She hits him, calls him down and abuses him. He says he is scared of her finacilly and what she will do to his posessions. They own a house together but have no kids. They ... (147 words)

How do I find out if she is gay, without embarrassing myself?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6137 days ago

1 February 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - All names changed to protect the innocent (or not so innocent). She and I have been in the same class for 2 and a half years now. We're in year 9 at the moment. I came out as lesbian last year (it wasn't easy, I made it more difficult for myself than it should have been... (280 words)

Worried, why havent I started my period?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6085 days ago

1 February 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - im 14 and i still havent had my period... when am i going to? what should i do? im in 8th grade and every girl in my family had theirs b4 then... im 5'2 but weigh only 80 lbs is that mayb a reason... i just need some help please!...... (50 words)

She cant let go of her ex, yet she loves and wants to be with me, help?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6137 days ago

1 February 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - I`m becoming very frustrated with my girlfriend and its getting me down with the way shes acting at times. i dont know what to do and my patience is running thin but i love her to bits and deep down i dont want to break up with her, we`ve been going out for 10 months. since we... (548 words)

I'm not sure what to make of this! Dont want to be he friend.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6137 days ago

1 February 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Hey everyone, My ex bf dumped me about a month ago...About 3 weeks after the break-up he randomly IM's me...after 3 weeks of me and him staring at each other online and not saying a word. We talked for about 2 hours....and he's like I'll talk to you soon. He then ignores ... (117 words)

I like him, I know he likes me, yet he has a girlfriend, what do I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6137 days ago

1 February 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok, I'm Really In Love With A Guy 1 Year Younger. He Liked Me For Ages And Everytime We Met At A Monthly Disco He Wanted Me 2 Dance With Him, This Went On For About 5 Months, And He Started Noticing Me At School. Eventually We Kissed. Now, About 6 Months Later, I Realised I ... (115 words)

Stuck between by ex and my current b/f. Should I give in to his blackmail?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6137 days ago

1 February 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - So heres the deal...My current bf of 2 years and I have have a 1 year old daughter together, he treats me well (except for when I want to hang out with my friends). Im 19 and hes 31 I feel like we're lifetimes apart. While on the other hand my ex and I have have been talking ... (235 words)

Do I marry this guy, or wait for the other one?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6136 days ago

1 February 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - I have a bf for 5yrs now (he is 3yrs older than me)and we both at marrying age. we already had plans of getting married when we reached 3rd yrear in our relationship and we planned to pursue it this year. During these years that we're together, we don't have major problems ... (245 words)

Why does he call when there's nothing to say?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6137 days ago

1 February 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Four months since the break up. And I am still hurting! I wish it would stop. All of it. Going to stop all contact starting right now. The thing is I have tried it before but if we don't speak, then 2 days later, like clockwork, my ex boyfriend would call. Insists he cares for ... (143 words)

Says he doesn't talk to his ex, that he hates her, but he emails her, can I trust him?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6134 days ago

1 February 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi guys i am new to this so any help would be great! My fiance is the only guy I have ever been completely honest with about EVERYTHING, I have had relationships in the past were I have lied and cheated, but I love him so much I feel like I should be 100% honest with him.... (162 words)

I am 13 and I am afraid of my 54 yr old Therepist

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 6137 days ago

1 February 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm a 13 year old girl. I've been really sad for quite a long time so my Mom got me to talk to a counseller. I've been seeing him for a couple months now and yesterday when I saw him I felt really uncomfortable. So he's 54 and I'm only 13. I was just sitting on the chair and he ... (84 words)

Why does he abuse me in public?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6137 days ago

1 February 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - hello, my recent ex i had a lot of history with, 3 years back we went out for 4 months broke up two weeks later got back together then broke up 2 months later. after that we began disliking eachother and he did horrible things to me and im not sure why. that lasted about a ... (189 words)

I am in Love. I am 13, he is 17. He is afraid of a Relationship. What can I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6137 days ago

1 February 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi im 13. And I was going out with a 17 year old for 2 months. We were completely in love. And we're starting to talk as friends again. But there's a problem. He loves me and wants me to be his. But he's scared. He's scared about the age and he's worried that something will ... (351 words)

I feel neglected, unwanted, heartboken and emotionally abused

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5792 days ago

1 February 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi, I am currently in a relation for 4 years living with my bf. I truely love him and he says he does to but lately he hasn't been showing that love, we argue and fight all the time, he treats me like sh-- and after a few days acts like everythings ok. I feel neglected, unwan... (109 words)

We get along physically, but talking to him is awkward

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6136 days ago

1 February 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I've been going out with this guy (my first proper boyfriend, I'm 18) for a month now. We get along well physically (no sex.. mostly kissing/cuddling etc) but I find that I can't talk to him. I called him last night for a chat, and it was just so awkward. I feel like I have n... (254 words)

How can I ask her out and get to know her better?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6133 days ago

1 February 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - I want you to help me, there is this girl I so much love but when we were in school she was going out with a friend of mine and now they are no longer dating and I soooo much love her. What do I do to make her know that I love her? Thanks. ... (57 words)

I'm in love with my sister

This question has 34 answers - newest was posted 5121 days ago

1 February 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi I have a problem. I'm 16, and I'm in love with my 14 year old sister. At first I thought it was just hormones, but it's been 4 years and I still feel the same way. Also I think she already knows, but I can't be sure. Help! ... (49 words)

Extreme Dreams... how do I apply?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6120 days ago

1 February 2008 (M)

age - Please advise upon how I can apply to be a candidate on a future "Extreme Dreams" expedition with Ben Fogel. I will be sixty years old this year and deeply reject the idea that I am "OLD, PAST IT, INFIRM, ETC.!" My wish is to make my Grandson proud of his Grandad. You... (84 words)

Please give me advice as to what to do on top if you are scared

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6137 days ago

1 February 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I am 28 years old. I was married (now divorced) and in a relationship for 10 years. I have only been with 3 people sexually in my life. I have been with my boyfriend now for about 4 months. I care about him deeply. When it comes to sex.....it is good. However, when it ... (106 words)

What levels of detail would you want to know if your wife cheated on you?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 6123 days ago

1 February 2008 (M)

age 51-59 - Hey all there. I' coming again with an additional question. My wife cheated on me and I want to thank all the persons who gave me quite helpful advice. You can see my earlier question on http://www.dearcupid.org/question/my-wife-and-mother-of-my-child-admitted.html The reaso... (100 words)

Wht colour should my period blood be?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5898 days ago

1 February 2008 (F)

age 26-29 - Is it normal for my period blood to be a dark brown when i first started my period it was a red colour but i have had about 5 periods now and its not red any more its a dark brown is this colour normal?... (45 words)

My husband cannot see how serious his pot-smoking problem really is. Please help.

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 6095 days ago

1 February 2008 (F)

age - I have been married for over 20 years. My husband has always smoked pot. I always thought this was just a phase, and that he would grow up and quit. We have grown children, and it was a big issue when they were young. I almost left him then, but was easier to stay for the ... (181 words)

What are the chances of being pregnant?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6107 days ago

1 February 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - hello i had sex with my boyfirend on the 24th of january and we didnt use protection and i was meant to start my period today but i havent, as it has been a month since my last period could i be pregnant??... (44 words)

Sex is painful, but I want to please my partner. Please help

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6107 days ago

1 February 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - i'm 26 years old and i have a problem.sex is so painful and i have never enjoyed it.i also dont come becoz i concentrate on the pain to much.when i get wet its too much so i cant say i'm not lubricating during sex.i'm now about to get engenged with a man i love so much but we ... (92 words)

My ex has a lot of money but only pays a little towards child support. What should I do?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6137 days ago

1 February 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - My ex is a real piece of work. He never wanted our son and has done everything he can to avoid paying child support. He has even gone as far as saying that he doesn't feel he should pay child support as I already claim Child Benefit and Tax Credits. He now pays me just ... (310 words)

I really love him but cant take anymore lies...is walking away the right thing??

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 6137 days ago

1 February 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been in a relationship with a married man for the last 4 years. Initially we started off as friends but became much more than that. He was in an emotionally abusive relationship with a very controlling woman. They were supposed to be divorcing but I am still to see any ... (207 words)

My husband lied from day one.. he is still married with two kids.

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6098 days ago

1 February 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - My husband has lied since day one; he said he was never married and had no children, well about 6 months into our marriage i found out that he was still married. He claimed that his childrens mother was his sister so needless to say i had no idea he had children. I have fou... (219 words)

Why is my tampon no longer fitting??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6137 days ago

1 February 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - This is mostly directed towards the women, but if you're a guy and you know what's up don't hesitate to make a suggestion. A few months ago, maybe three, the tampons I use (regular tampax pearl) that usually glide right in stopped working for me. Ever since then I haven't ... (160 words)

My mum and the lady I babysit for are trying to get me and my ex back together but I am so nervous.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5895 days ago

1 February 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - I really am not sure how to phrase this but let me see; The lady i babysit for and my mom are trying to get me and my ex back together because they lady i babysit for says i was good for my ex and my mom agrees. Me and my ex started out as friends and thats what they (being... (136 words)

Is it normal to have an extra piece of skin on the lower vagina?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6138 days ago

1 February 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - On the woman's lower area, near the vagina, is it normal for there to be a little extra piece of skin kind of just 'hanging' there?... (26 words)

How can I have sex with other girls without hurting my girlfriend?

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 6107 days ago

1 February 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - me and my girlfriend have been dateing for 7 mounths now and the frist couple day of our relationship she took my virginity and for the past 4 or 5 mounths i wanted to experience it with other girls but with out hurting her can sombody please help me... (49 words)

Mood swings, doesn't trust me.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6078 days ago

1 February 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - I just dont know wht to do anymore. For the last year i've been trying to get this girls parents to allow us to date. well 6 months ago i got my wish and we've been dating ever since. my problem is that she constantly has mood swings, doesnt trust me, and is not that matu... (192 words)

I hurt him all the time and don't like it

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6138 days ago

1 February 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - okay..my relation ship is wonderful i tould him about me and his best friend and he wasnt as mad as i thout he should be,but that isnt my question..my question is i dont think im a very good g/f..i have cheated and argued with him..my past is very tramatizing but it doesnt ... (97 words)

I feel so empty, like I'm walking, but not alive

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6138 days ago

1 February 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I have been married to my husband just over a year; We have a 1 year old daughter and one on the way. I feel like I have been trapped by everyone who is suppose to care about me. I had told my husband, my parents, my grandparents I was not ready for marriage but every body ... (189 words)

I miss him, all though I don't show it.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6137 days ago

1 February 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I just ended my relationship with my boyfriend a little over a month ago. He just started dating one of my friends from high school. every time i see them hug, and say i love you to eachother, i get this cringe in my stomach and it doesn't go away. i miss him so much, ev... (71 words)

I'm scared if he has second thoughts

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1 February 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Me and my boyfreind have been going out for a year already and he has cheated on me befor with his babysmomma so now i have rus issues i kinda trust him but i don trust her shes scandalis he had went to jail for about 3 months and i wrote him for about 2 months then i started ... (374 words)

Has anyone else had a similar experience.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6137 days ago

1 February 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - Alright...so this is probably stupid, but it's something that's haunted me forever, and I'd love to get over it. I'm worried about cum getting on things. It never used to worry me. Just at some point, the idea that it was getting in my boxers and thus possibly my hand... (117 words)

How to help my friend get a girlfriend.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6137 days ago

1 February 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - i've known my friend for about 4 years and he hasnt had a girlfriend in this whole time i've known him. he's always saying how he doesnt want a girlfriend and he just wants sex (which i find kind of shallow) but i dont believe that. i dont think hes ever been in love or had a ... (113 words)

Does he like me? How should I talk to him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6137 days ago

1 February 2008 (F)

age 26-29 - i need help. i cant tell if a boy likes me or not. wealways look at each other. his friends tease me and my friends tease me. all i want is to be with him and no one else. we really have never talked. but i would love to. how should i start talkin to him with out his ... (83 words)

What do I do, get for my girlfriend for valentines day?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6137 days ago

1 February 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - hey, i wanted to do something/get something nice for my girlfriend on valentines day, but unfortunately im not sure what i could do/get her. Could you guys please help me come up with something??... (34 words)

I think I'm developing premature ejaculation, help me!`

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6137 days ago

1 February 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - Ok heres my story. Im pretty sure I have a mild case of PE. I am 22 years old, and have been having sex for 4 years now. I was with my most recent GF for over 3 years, and enjoyed a pretty good sex life. I would PE every once in awhile, but it wasnt really a huge issue. It ... (456 words)

Wasn't prepared for returned feelings.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6128 days ago

1 February 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - Hey all only me, So I had my graduation ceremony today and saw my ex again for the first time in 3 months since she broke up with me. It was bittersweet. We didnt speak, or even make eye contact, but we must have see each other walk up on stage and collect our awards. The ... (286 words)

I'm 8 months pregnant and 16 yrs old, but I want to have a singing career, any advice?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 6025 days ago

1 February 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I have a problem, i wonder if any of you can help. Im 16 years old almost 17 and (foolishly!) im 8 months pregnant. However ive just noticed that i have a real talent for singing and i would love to pursue this career. i dont want to be tied down to my man and baby, i ... (132 words)