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Archived questions from: February, 2008 (see latest questions)

Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

His family doesn’t like me and I don’t know why? Should I ignore them all?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6103 days ago

29 February 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - What’s going on with me I’m so paranoid over something that he promised I’m not and I cant get over the stuff that his grandma said about me that if I were young it would be different but now I’m older and she thinks I’m bad and am going to do something when we are alone. ... (276 words)

Was he joking or does he really like me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6109 days ago

29 February 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - there is this boy at school who i kinda like he always talks to me and he says he fancys my sister (he would not go out with my sister because se is 20 and he is 14 and he only says it as a joke to me)it was mufti day today and he complimented me on how i looked (i usally shy ... (115 words)

How can I overcome this frigidity?

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29 February 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm a 19 year old female from Ireland and my problem is that I can seem to manage intimacy with anyone. I'm attracted to girls and I don't have a lot of trouble finding those who are attracted to me(not in an arrogant way) but I just feel that I either am not interesting in sex ... (96 words)

How can I get over her sexual past as this is the only problem in the relationship??

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 6108 days ago

29 February 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - I'm currently in a serious relationship with a girl I love. The only problem is that I cant get over her sexual past (which really isnt that bad) She's 21 and has been with 6 guys, all of them short flings that lasted a couple weeks. (the tot. amount of times she had sex was ... (114 words)

Should I attempt to pursue something with a guy who is shy about meeting in person?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6109 days ago

29 February 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - To set this up, I have little experience dating. I went through years of not even trying to date. But I've decided to turn over a new leaf and put myself out there. I decided to try online dating and have corresponded with some nice guys that way. I went out on a few dates, but ... (225 words)

Will brushing out your hair while wet give you split ends??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6109 days ago

29 February 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - One night i was in the bathroom getting ready to brush out my hair after i got out of the shower and my sister comes in and says i wouldn't do that if i were you.. and i was like do what? She said brush out my hair when it is wet. I asked why and she said because it gives you ... (88 words)

How do I get over him and just be his friend for our daughters sake??

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6107 days ago

29 February 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend of 4 years recently broke up with me. We were high school sweethearts who always had a complicated relationship. We got pregnant and had a baby in high school. He later proposed to me after the baby turned one and we planned to marry in June of 2007. Things fell ... (646 words)

What questions would you all ask to get a solid answer yes or no?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6109 days ago

29 February 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - Okay thank you all for answering to my headache and trust me its a headache because I want to love this female, but its not right of her at all but I also have a huge heart. All right here we go the plot thickens and I mean it gets deeper than what most oceans get(so please s... (422 words)

My bf is jealous of the guy who gives me everything...what should I do??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6109 days ago

29 February 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been in a relationship for 1 year and 2 months. It has it's ups and downs. At times i get so mad i beg him to end the relationship but he does not want to let me go. I met this other guy whom is basically everything i have wanted in a man. My bf is jealous and does not... (84 words)

How can she move on after a mere two months??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6108 days ago

29 February 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - Hi, Here's my story. I was dating this girl for the past 4.5 years while I was studying overseas. We lived-in together for 3 of those years. I loved her terribly and only saw myself with her. 2 months ago, after the end of my studies I had to leave and return home. We had talk... (679 words)

I fancy my female tutor like mad...and I think she looks at my body.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6109 days ago

29 February 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey :D Ok, im at a hair and beauty college doing beauty therapy, and i have a female tutor who i fancy like mad, i mean REALLY REALLY fancy, she's in her early 30's and has a little girl, but doesnt live with the partner anymore. Everytime we have her for study, i get all nerv... (159 words)

How can I nip this in the bud about his ex, or am I wasting my time?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6100 days ago

29 February 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend and I have been together 2 years, we met 3 years before we started dating,(when he just became single) and got more closer leading up to the start of our relationship. However as a friend, he used to talk about his ex, and how he cried every night for months. and i ... (619 words)

I have a creepy feeling that this teacher likes me more than usual, what do I do?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4915 days ago

29 February 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I Have Got This Creepy feeling this Teacher likes me more than usual. whether its just that I'm Friendly and because every teacher in the school knows me I am very sociable with them, but, he always smiles at me and if he sees me in the corridors he waits until I look at him ... (240 words)

I am still holding onto the hope he likes me but I really can't bear it anymore.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6109 days ago

29 February 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - hiya, i wrote up the other day about the fact i'd fell in love with my friend but knew we could never be together becasue he has no idea about it all and everything. Anyway i seriously can't take it anymore, i don't know why i've let it come to this! I mean i was sure he liked... (627 words)

My bf's ex is pregnant with his child, I just cannot look at him without thinking of her, help!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6108 days ago

29 February 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - hey i have been with my boyfriend for less than a year i recently found out that his ex is pregnant for him . since he found out that she is pregnant his out look on life has changed now he is so afraid of commitment and he does not see him self having a child with me.i feel ... (108 words)

I stay out of his way but I really can't seem to handle this situation...please help.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6109 days ago

29 February 2008 (F) age 30-35 - Hello everyone this is 'My Teacher Blushes When Seeng Me and Mines Not Infatuation'Thanks for your answers! Sure I blew him a kiss once or twice as a joke when I didn’t like him and it was just my first year in this new school I,m sure he knew I was joking and would respond ... (327 words)

One day we are flirting...the next we are fighting...what should I do??

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6108 days ago

29 February 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - hey, was wondering if anyone can help me with this... I basically went out with a guy at the start of the summer, didn't feel the same so split up with him. We go through really rough patches one day we're flirting the next we're fighting. hes really bad for making up rumours ... (94 words)

Will her male friends stop calling when they hear we are dating??

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6109 days ago

29 February 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - Hello, I really like this girl Jessica, we have liked each other for about 4years now. But the reason why i didnt date her before was because she was really flirty to everyone and it made me jealous and i didnt see myself trusting her, so i gave up on her and dated another ... (185 words)

Will he tell?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6109 days ago

29 February 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - hi every one, I'm only 14 and i have fallen in love with this guy, but he only likes me for what I did in the past... I have shown him my breasts and I wish I didn't.. I really do. Now he wants me to show it to him again, but I keep on saying no. I just feel like in being ... (105 words)

Does he love me? What do I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6109 days ago

29 February 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi, I really need help! Im seeing this guy who is already in a relationship. I've been seeing him for a year now and im in complete awe of him. I know its wrong and not a day goes by that i dont make me feel guilty but i cant help my feelings for him i tried to break it off a... (186 words)

Something has changed between us.

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6109 days ago

29 February 2008 (M)

- Hi, can somebody pls help? My girlfriend and I are going through a rough patch, just arguing about nothing really. I feel she is pulling away as the loving texts\mails she used to send have stopped. However, we are stil in regular contact but less affectionate ... (137 words)

We just got back together and he tells me he's going out with friends instead of me!!!!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6109 days ago

29 February 2008 (?) age 41-50 - Ok so if it was finished with you and your boyfriend, but you both knew you'd get back together, and you did just this week. Would you be kinda odd if he wanted to be with the boys tonight rather than you??? Well thats my story, we finished sunday... said we'd make up ... (87 words)

How do I cope with my friends calling me names?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6109 days ago

29 February 2008 (F)

age 26-29 - My family is kinda well off but my friends think that because were well off I'm spoiled and it's really hurtful to hear them talking about me behind my back and saying things that aren't true what should I do?... (40 words)

My boyfriend wants me to kiss him over his body but I'm not sure what to do or where I really need advice.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6109 days ago

29 February 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend wants me to kiss him over his body but I'm not sure what to do or where I really need advice, he's my first every boyfriend and he's had loads of experience, he's always kissing me and touching me but I don't do anything back, and I think he's going off me because ... (62 words)

Can anyone tell me what a "spit roast" is???

This question has 21 answers - newest was posted 5267 days ago

29 February 2008 (?) age 30-35 - What's a "spit roast" all these lasses at school where taking the piss out of a girl at school because she didn't know what it meant and I just laughed along so they didn't know any different. What does it actually mean? ... (43 words)

She's due out of jail soon and is claiming to have "found the Lord". She wants to come home... should I take her back?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6109 days ago

29 February 2008 (M)

age - Briefly as I can: situation I am 58, ex is 42. She is in jail {6 months} and will be getting out soon. I was married 20 years 1 [15 year old daughter] left. This woman has stole credit cards, bank checks over the 20 years amounting to $100,000 total. I always stayed because ... (162 words)

Can anyone help give me tips to lose 30kg?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6086 days ago

29 February 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I really have to lose about 30kg. I need help please. Anything that would work? I do swim and walk about 2 kilometres a day but it doesn't seem to work. Please help me. thx. xxx.... (37 words)

What should I do when my boyfriend said to me that he still loves his ex girlfriend?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5751 days ago

29 February 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - What should I do when my boyfriend said to me that he still loves his ex girlfriend? Will I continue this commitment? please help me...... (26 words)

Why do some women choose 'bad boys' over 'normal' guys, as nine times out of ten, they get hurt in the end?

This question has 19 answers - newest was posted 6097 days ago

29 February 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - Why do some women choose 'bad boys' over 'normal' guys, as nine times out of ten, they get hurt in the end?... (22 words)

Her not texting me back is really doing my head in!!!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6109 days ago

29 February 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - Hi, I met a girl on the weekend, went back to her house with my mate and her mate. We didn't do anything just watched a film and fell asleep together on the couch. I got her number and I'm always first to text. When we text she seems interested but the first time I asked he... (288 words)

What's this brown discharge?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6109 days ago

29 February 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - hey peeps bn readin ur mails n am amazed.could i be pregnant??????????please advise am i paranoid??had periods in jan 24-27th(26day-cycle)so the next should be on 20th feb,but am missing!!!!though that week had sore breasts,headache,and on the expected dates(20-21st)i also dis... (104 words)

I'm worried my brother gets ignored by my mum.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6108 days ago

29 February 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm really concerned about my 12 year old brother. I've always gotten more attention than him, which used to drive me nuts because he could always get away with things that I couldn't, but lately I've been seeing this in a different light. I'm 18, and I'm leaving for university ... (328 words)

I'm single again, but a little out of practice with dating... Help!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6109 days ago

29 February 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi 2 all, I finished with my ex in december and i'm ready to look for someone new, but i'm not sure how brutal the dating world is nowadays, as i've been off the market for a while. Any tips or advice from anyone? Please it would help me and i would apreciate it!... (56 words)

He's still supporting his ex wife. Am I wasting my time?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6095 days ago

29 February 2008 (F)

age - This is a long story but will try and condense it down. The man I am with has a problem letting go of his ex wife. We were living together for two years when he couldn't decide what life he wanted anymore, so he went behind my back and made plans with his wife to go back to ... (244 words)

Doesn't he want to be with me any more?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6108 days ago

29 February 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I have been seeing my Bf for about 3-4 weeks now, but for the last 2days he hasn't texted me or answerd my calls, i know he doesn't get paid till the end of the month, so he might not have credit to text me back, but he could still answer the phone! Have i done something to ... (72 words)

Heavy and frequent periods. Am I ovulating more than normal?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6108 days ago

29 February 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I experience irregular periods all of my adult life. My bleeding used to be quite excessive in the past. I have seen various doctors, specialists, had many many tests etc but nothing has ever been found to be wrong with me. Now I am on the pill and I also am prescribed blood ... (265 words)

The love of my life left me because her parents didn't give us their blessing!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5351 days ago

29 February 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - My girlfriend has been in serious relationship with me for 1 year. She was genuinely interested in me all through the year. But when her parents opposed to our marriage, she hasn't called me up ever since. I have to mention that in Indian culture, parents decision is considered ... (219 words)

I'm in love with my cousin, but I'm handicapped. How can I cope?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5800 days ago

29 February 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - I and my female first cousin are of the same age(17 yrs).We were in love from our very childhood(9 yrs) as well as we shared a tight friendship.We used to meet each other many a times.At night,we slept side by side and used to hold our hands,arms and I even kissed her neck ... (291 words)

If I don't have anything interesting to say I remain silent; he says our stretches of silence make him uncomfortable!

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 4906 days ago

29 February 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm in a realationship of nine months with a wonderful man who I love but we dont seem to have anything to talk about. All he talks about are cars and I'm just not that interested in them. He's brought up the lack of talking and says that our long stretches of silence make him ... (98 words)

How to let my older friend know how I feel for him without looking foolish?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6109 days ago

29 February 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I am madly in love with a guy who is 12 years older than me. He is Christian and so am I. We wouldn't have sex or even kiss before marriage but I just love being near him how do I let him know how I feel for him without making me look like a fool or talking to him I am usually ... (72 words)

Should I use a condom if I am already protected by the contraceptive pills and would the bleeding prevent me from having an orgasm?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6109 days ago

29 February 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - hello, Im a girl from Asia, I havent got much sex education at school, and so at this age when I know the time is coming I feel a bit confused. I'd like to prepare for my first time and also my sex life in the long run. Plz help me with these questions: 1) Should he use a co... (130 words)

My friend's bf is a liar and a cheater, he flirts with me and other girls when she is not around! What can I do?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6109 days ago

29 February 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - My friend's boyfriend is a liar and a cheater! She cares about him and is always helping him, even if he says he doesn't need help. Her bf claims to love her, even though he flirts with me and other girls when she's not around. Also, my friend has caught him cheating. My ... (76 words)

Ladies, what would you enjoy reading in an email from a long lost ex-boyfriend?...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6110 days ago

29 February 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - I want to reconnect with an ex I haven't spoken to in 2 years. There's no bad blood between us. We spoke after the break-up a few times on good terms until we both graduated. Ladies, what would you enjoy reading in an email from a long lost ex-boyfriend? ... (52 words)

How can I make him understand that this is a pointless argument?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5687 days ago

29 February 2008 (F) age 36-40 - I had a fight with my BF. He gets so upset each time the issue is brought up, but he's the one who brings it up so there's no way for me to stop it. Anyway... I had a friend with benefits when I was 15, and years later, he introduced me to my BF (mutual friend and all..... (457 words)

How to drive away my nightmares?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6109 days ago

29 February 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I am having nightmares every night for most of the night and not getting the sleep I need. I can't seem to control them and I'm really tired all the time. I don't know why this happens, but I really need to know what I can do about it. ... (55 words)

Does first time oral hurt?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5490 days ago

29 February 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - Does it hurt getting a blow job for the 1st time ever? because i'm a virgin but i'm scared to have sex with this girl that i like a lot.. what should i do???... (35 words)

I am enjoying the excitement but there are however too many moral reasons to stop this incoming affair. What would you do?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6109 days ago

29 February 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been secretly emailing with a friend's husband and it is getting heavy. There is crazy attraction and they will be moving close by soon. I'm not sure how to handle this. It was just sort of flirty before but now it's too close to home. I know this is not right, so ... (105 words)

This spot on my penis has me worried!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6073 days ago

29 February 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - Ok, heres the deal.i just noticed a dark spot inside the skin on my penis. I dont know what it is but I think it may be blood or something. I dont jack off to much 1 or 2 times a day isnt bad. But I need to know if it could be some type of disease or something in my penis ... (100 words)

Where to look for a relationship? I'm 27 and never dated.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6106 days ago

29 February 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - Where is a good place to look for a relationship? I'm 27, soon to be 28, and have never dated. I am interested in trying now, but I don't know where to look or even what to do if I do find someone. ... (45 words)

Is my mother sleeping with my boyfriend?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 6082 days ago

29 February 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I’m a little confused. I have been dating this wonderful guy (Greg) for 9 months now. He is 21 I’m 20. I live with my mother and my younger sister ( our father left when we were little – so it’s just us girls). My mother loves my boyfriend to bits and my boyfriend says that if ... (891 words)