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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Sex films and best mates

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6157 days ago

9 February 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - My wife often lets me film her perform sexual acts on herself and me. I had never considered showing them to anyone until one day she told me I could show them to my best friend aslong as I pretended she didn't know. At first I was shocked by this. Me and my friend often wa... (136 words)

Anyone got any help or advice for my sister?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6160 days ago

9 February 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - Help! My younger sister has been involved with a guy for about 5 years now who constantly puts her down (rude comments about where she lives, her taste in books etc etc). What really concerns me is that she seems unable to let go of him. She depends on him emotionally and in ... (375 words)

Why do I always shoot myself in the foot when trying to get to know someone?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6160 days ago

9 February 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - I really screwed up. I met this girl today at my party's caucus who was really cool, and I think we had some chemistry. I started at her confidently and walked right up to her and started talking. I usually don't display this kind of confidence, but when I am truly attracted ... (393 words)

Is he leading me on here?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6159 days ago

9 February 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello, I'm 15 years old and I've met this guy in my Italian class, I really love him, I've never felt this way for anyone. So when I finally decided to talk to him, to my surprise he talked to me first. The next day he talked to me again, something that I thought was way sweet ... (139 words)

What to do for Valentine's day?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5802 days ago

9 February 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm 18. There is this guy at work that I started dating back in December '07. We have fun together, he is a GREAT guy, he helps me a lot. I'm there for him, he's there for me... he's 23. We have been official "boyfriend/girlfriend" for only a week now, and Valentine's day is ... (205 words)

Is my mate interested in being more than a mate with me or am I way off here?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6160 days ago

9 February 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - About a year and a half ago I went on a date with this guy. It didn't work out but we remained friends. He is such a good friend that I take all my dating problems to him and vice versa. Anyways just lately I have agreed to go on a date with a guy I have known for a few ... (175 words)

Where can we go on our first date?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6160 days ago

9 February 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi, hope you can help. I need some suggestions on what to do. Next Saturday I am going on a date with this guy I met over a dating site. I really like him, we have been swapping emails over MSN, since early January. He had messaged me on the dating site early December but I had ... (408 words)

Is this true love? How can I get my ex back?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6157 days ago

9 February 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I really love my ex-boyfriend now,I dont know what to do how can i forget him,I promise to my self that his my first and the last one that i love eventhough some guys are courting me now but i dont like them coz there different of my ex bf...its been 2 months we broke up but i ... (128 words)

Should I let her promiscuous past bother me? I cannot help but think nastily about her in this regard.

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5689 days ago

9 February 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - Alright, i need some input just to get my head straight: i have been dating this girl for about 8 months, and i am very much in love with her. I think she is a wonderful person and i actually for the first time in my life can see myself marrying her. I am excited for ev... (317 words)

Why did he react funny towards me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6160 days ago

9 February 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - i need ur help on this...there's this guy he always picks on me...in a good away poking me, saying hi-as he says hi i say hi then he says hi in a soft voice then i say hi..etc...then one time, it snowed a lot and in this organization where weboth are in, started playin g with ... (385 words)

Any advice for picking up sorority girls at fraternity parties?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6159 days ago

9 February 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - hi all I just received and accepted a bid to join the a very prestige fraternity, and im starting the initiation process. I have had alot of fun at the rush parties, where we usually invite another sorority over. I have alot of fun hanging out with my newfound brother... (177 words)

I usually take the lead in the bedroom but this girl intimidated me! What to do about the marks on my penis?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6160 days ago

9 February 2008 (?) age 51-59 - I am a bloke and usually always take the lead in bed. the tables were turned on the the other night though. I scored with this girl and she was totally dominating in bed almost to the point of intimidation. She also had the vocal skills to match. I was a bit thrown by the whole ... (72 words)

My husband has had an affair for the past year.

This question has 21 answers - newest was posted 6056 days ago

9 February 2008 (F)

age - 5 weeks ago I found out that my husband (we've been married 21 years)had an affair last year. He says that it is over and is trying very hard to make ammends. we talk a lot and are going to relate. He has told lots of lies and last week I found that he is still in contact with ... (332 words)

Girlfriend cheated on me, when to walk

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6160 days ago

9 February 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - I have been dating a girl for just over a year. We just got engaged in mid december. A week after our engegement i found out that she has been having an affair with her ex boyfriend of 4 years for the past 3 months. I confronted her, she moved out of my home and we broke up... (462 words)

Am I doing this correct to heal my penis.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6159 days ago

9 February 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi I think that this is an embarrassing situation so please be gentle. I am worried about the state of the head of my penis. It has become "cracked" and dry and i have read that excessive use of soap on the penis can cause this, is this correct, because that is what i ... (200 words)

Was this poster wrong?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 6159 days ago

9 February 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - This is a bit wierd, but in science i saw a poster of a woman - cause we are on the topic of sex ed - and the woman had three holes down below. do they??? or was the poster wrong cause i alway thought they just had two... thanks:) ... (53 words)

Can't find guys that share my sex fetishes

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6079 days ago

9 February 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - since I started having sex Ive always been into some wierd fetishes; like facials, anal, smoking fetish, and especially- BDSM. I enjoy pain during sex and many other 'strange' things.... I won't go into details.... but all the guys I end up shagging are so boring in bed and ... (179 words)

Is there something I'm not doing right?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6160 days ago

9 February 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Im 24 me and my partner have been together for 4 years we have kids and everything is fine apart from in the bedroom. he complains that i dont do any work ie go on top then when i do he acts like its not a turn on and that im not doing it right then he moves me into differen... (94 words)

Does he think our relationship is more friendly

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6159 days ago

9 February 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - hi i dont want to sound paranoid. but my bf has myspace and recently my friend left comments on his page with loads of kisses and he replied back saying something but with laods of kisses. i found that he normally gives me more than one kiss when he writes a comment and any ... (124 words)

My fiance's sister is ruining out relationship

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6158 days ago

9 February 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - My fiance and i have been together for over 2 years now, and we have recenlty moved int an apartment with her sister. Her sister has just gone through a divorce because she said he was too young and didnt get to do all the things she wanted to, and by things she meant go out ... (190 words)

Any ideas on a Valentines present I can make?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6160 days ago

9 February 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I want to make a present for my boyfriend for valentines day, anyone got any good ideas? We've only been together a couple of months so nothing too intense :o)... (31 words)

My nipple is itchy and flaky!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6113 days ago

9 February 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - My left nipple is itchy, dry and flaky. What can I do to make it better? I'm not pregnant, this has never happened before. It's been itchy for about a week now, and only yesterday did I notice when I actually looked that it looks a bit flaky. I haven't changed detergen... (62 words)

I prefer natural pubic areas to the fashionable smooth, hairless styles. Why do women think I'm a freak when I explain my preferance?...

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5657 days ago

9 February 2008 (M)

age 51-59 - I discovered long ago that I'm only attracted to women who keep themselves "all-natural" or at least remain very hairy below the belt. In the past I dated women like this and I never had a problem meeting women who cherished their natural hair growth. Today it's different. ... (151 words)

Is this normal or unhealthy, to feel uneasy about us being apart for a week?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6160 days ago

9 February 2008 (F) age 36-40 - Ok, this is a silly question... My boyfriend may go on a trip to the beach for a week. We've been together for a year and a half. However, we've never been apart because one of us had to travel. This is my first boyfriend and I don't know why I feel uneasy and sad about ... (153 words)

I let real love slip right by me, and now I'm down and out. How can I get through this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6160 days ago

9 February 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - I think I have messed up my entire life because I followed my head and not my heart and rejected a man who really loved me, and who I loved, not once but many times. Now I feel cursed, actually. My whole life has gone down the toilet and I am homeless and jobless and in debt.... (110 words)

Does he fancy me, or is this just my imagination?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6160 days ago

9 February 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I've known this guy since year 8 through one of the other guys in my class. As I'm now in year 10 I'm in loads of new class' and met loads of new people; and have ended up in this guys class for Performing Arts BETC. We keep annoying eachother; hitting, slapping, pocking, ... (128 words)

Should I wear a condon when being masturbated?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6160 days ago

9 February 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - Like many young lads I orgasm too quickly so my girlfriend now masturbates me to orgasm first and then we go to bed and have full sex later with a condom on. we don't use a condom during masturbation because the semen just goes onto my chest and is easily wiped off.Is t... (62 words)

My husband is still in contact with his ex. Am I the only one who thinks this is inappropriate?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6160 days ago

9 February 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - i got married 5months ago. My husband keeps txting and calling his ex of 3yrs,meanwhile he never speaks to her in my front and he keeps telling me how close she is to him and that they are just good friends. I'm angry cuz he still got her pics on his phone and the pc and he ... (73 words)

Our children have taken a liking to each other, but I'm not sure how to handle this. Please help

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6159 days ago

9 February 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I am 31 years old and i recently started a new relationship. I have a 15 year old son. My boyfriend has two children 13 year old girl and 10 year old boy. my son and his daughter finally met a few weeks ago. im very concerend because now they think they are bf and gf. Is ... (79 words)

My gf has openly told me she cuddles and kisses her ex, and will glorify how much he loves her, etc. Do I leave her??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6160 days ago

9 February 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - My girlfriend and I have been together for nearly 5 months now and she is amazing. For a month she blew me away, she was nothing but the greatest person on Earth and I even proposed to her. I know I'm young, but I can deal. Anyway, she always mentioned her ex boyfriend (wi... (183 words)

Does she have to agree to a divorce?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6160 days ago

9 February 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - hi its me again, i have another question for your help with. My partner has spoken to his ex-wife about getting divorced and she said yes, but has not done anything about it. my question is can he get divorced without her sayin yes or does she have to agree?... (50 words)

Husband blames me for his abusive behaviour saying he is not happy due to my weight. My situation makes me depressed.

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 6159 days ago

9 February 2008 (F)

age - I was so glad to see all the Answers replying to weight-related questions because I have been upset many times by my partner telling me I am 'fat'. I was bigger than I am now when I met him 3 yrs ago) and have lost a couple of stone in the last 2 yrs. I look younger than I ... (325 words)

My partner of 17 yrs jumped into another relationship immediately after the separation, which battered my confidence - how can I regain it?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6160 days ago

9 February 2008 (M)

age 51-59 - My partner of 17years, I have known her for 19years, left me and than jumped striaght into another relationship. I found out three weeks later. Its been year since the spilt but I still think about her, not as much now. She hasnt made no contact with me at all. And she never ... (103 words)

My friend does not mention me much so I feel left out, how should I confront her about this?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6160 days ago

9 February 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - i have a lot of mates but i keep on feeling left out one of my freinds we go out we walk to school and we talk on a regular basis but there is no mention of me on her myspace but she mentions all of her other freinds witch i am hurt by. i like a boy who my freind knows who i ha... (135 words)

I have real feelings for my cousing, but I don't know what to do.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6136 days ago

9 February 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - Anonymous (Not yet posted!) Hi Im 16 years old boy and every few weeks i go to my grandmothers for the weekend. one of the trips i spent up there my 12 yearold femaile cousin stayed too Wev only seen eachother 5 or 6 times throughout our lives so we dont realy th... (304 words)

Does it feel the same when you masturbate as it does when you have sex?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5472 days ago

9 February 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I am a Virgin and I have just started to masturbate. Each time I do it it takes longer and longer until I get this amazing feeling which makes me shiver all over!! Does this mean I'm getting better at it? Also, is this an orgasm and does it feel the same when you masturbate as ... (63 words)

I am willing to have a secret affair with a co-worker (we both have troubled marriages.) Please advise.

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 6120 days ago

9 February 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - I am 34 years old, married for 6 years, with 2 children. My husband and I have began on a rocky road. His family caused alot of trouble between us the first 2 years. We finally got past that, only to run into financial trouble. My husband is a "dreamer"; always talking about ... (273 words)

My ex called out of the blue. When I call back should I suggest that we get together?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6160 days ago

9 February 2008 (F)

- Hoping one of the great and caring agony aunts can help me here. I was with my boyfriend for twelve years and he just packed his bags and left two and a half years ago. He went back to his hometown and reconnected with a new person. Understandably she wants him to have no ... (206 words)

I could never live with my husband again but I cannot get the courage to go to a solicitor about divorce because of my fears!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6160 days ago

9 February 2008 (F)

age - I am 50 years old and separated from my husband. Eight years ago he gave me std's and a couple of months later i lost my mother and so was too weak to fight him. I have never been happy since in fact i just lost interest in life i think and i got him to leave the home 18 months ... (246 words)

Deep throat... why do they make a fuss over it?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5350 days ago

9 February 2008 (?) age 30-35 - Is deep throat really so difficult? Am I getting it wrong here, when I think it's just taking a man's penis a little further into your mouth? I don't understand why people make such a huge deal of it, is there something I'm missing?... (44 words)

Finally met him in person, and he came out as very shy and reserved. How can I make him open up more?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6160 days ago

9 February 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Well i meet up with this guy a few days ago, we have talked over the computer for a while and got on well though i know when you meet someone in person they can be very different.Well he was very shy and nervous and would hardly look me in the face most of the time. I tried to ... (151 words)

Can we get over the fact that we've each slept with other people?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 6160 days ago

9 February 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Ive just started dating this guy a few months ago and everything was going great till we told each about sexual history let's just say at 19 he's had ten times about sexual partners i have, (3) or so he claims, and he knows im Bi but when i told him i had a sexual relations... (170 words)

Back in contact with my ex for the 3rd time. I don't want to cut contact with her again, but I DO want to move on. What can I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6159 days ago

9 February 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - Hello. I'm trying to be friends with my ex-girlfriend. This is the 3rd time that I have tried to keep contact with her, because every other time I tried I've ended up avoiding her, because I've been too upset. We spoke properly for the first time in a couple of months last n... (265 words)

Can you be in love and not know??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6161 days ago

9 February 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I had been dating months before he said he loved me. I reciprocated as I have strong feelings for him. Someone asked me once though how come I loved him and I couldn't really tell them. I started thinking about how you tell if it's love. I thought if you loved ... (198 words)

How can you tell if there was a thrid person involved in your break-up??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6161 days ago

9 February 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - Hey everyone, just wondering if anyone has had experience worrying that their ex that just broke up with them has done it because they met someone else. Even though I know that I 'don't want to know', it's hard to not wonder and be a bit obsessive about it. It happened to... (161 words)

Guys....does it matter if girls have arm hair??

This question has 52 answers - newest was posted 3309 days ago

9 February 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - hello Welll i know this question sounds pretty weird but do guys care if girls have arm hair or not? I know some girls that shave their arm hair and i just wanted to know if it even matters...i've never done anything to remove my arm hair but sometimes i do feel self consciou... (72 words)

Tips on getting him to propose.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6161 days ago

9 February 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - My bf and I have been dating for over a year now. And as a joke he poped the question, a couple of time. We basicly live together. I go to school and I work. He works full time and has his own appartment. The only difference is, i'm actually serious about it and he keeps ... (119 words)

Desparate and feeling worthless.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6161 days ago

9 February 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - lately ive just been feeling so worthless and it kinda seems like the world would be so much better without me. my girlfried deserves so much better than i can offer and no matter how much i try to improve i only make things worse. no matter what i do she refuses to leave me ... (83 words)

Pregnant or miscarriage?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6160 days ago

9 February 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - ok, im 18 and i just lost my virginity 11 days ago.... is it possible that i could be pregnant already? and if i was, could i be having a miscarriage this soon? because earlier when i went to go use the bathroom, i had heavy bleeding, which wasn't like if i was on my period, ... (81 words)

Who might be the father.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6159 days ago

9 February 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - If I had sex in May throughout the whole month with my boyfriend then we broke up and had a rebound hookup around June 7 and now am pregnant and due February 25, who would that make the father?... (39 words)

I think it would be awkward to ask.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6161 days ago

9 February 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - i just recently broke up with my boyfriend. my BEST friend told me(while me and my boyfriend were dating)that he liked me more than a best friend, and i feel the same. He is kinda the reason i broke it off with my boyfriend. My friend helped me with the break up,and was happy ... (152 words)

Interracial relationship on the rocks.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6161 days ago

9 February 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - Dear Cupid, For the past 3 months I havnt met with my Girlfriend, Due to for the first 2 months i was trying to spend some time with her and my family, in my house, She never found the time to come here, Saying she couldnt b/c school and job got in the way, I P... (289 words)

Failure to commit, seems a little too comfy and bored

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6161 days ago

9 February 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend and I met, and I moved in with him 2 months later. Now I've been living with him for almost two years, and we are totally in love in a lot of ways. I'm starting to regret having put myself in this situation, I want to get married someday, and he doesn't seem to be ... (173 words)

He doesn't support me and I support him.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6161 days ago

9 February 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - My husband goes to his mother with every problem we have,plus some. And when she comes to me she has this front of like she so holy holy and in the neutral.But today she accidently called my house phone while talking to my husband.It's like her whole attitude and ... (107 words)

He never wanted me to see her.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6157 days ago

9 February 2008 (?) age - It has been a horrid year, I found out my husband was having an affair, it has been 10 months, although I have been looking like I am healing, I am thinking over and over about what he did to me, and his our kids, I know he is sorry, genuinely he is, he is always worried about ... (297 words)

How to change his mind about this.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6160 days ago

9 February 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I have been dating my boyfriend for 1 year and 6 months now. In the past he had fingered me and I have gave him a handjob. One night we were talking and he told me that we should stop doing this cause he thinks it will lead to sex. Well we have talked about sex and if we want ... (104 words)

Cheap but romantic ideas

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6160 days ago

9 February 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey guys. I go out with this great girl, shes a junior and im a freshman. Our one month anniversary is on Valentines Day. I wanna do something romantic for her and give her something she'll really like. So far ive gotten her a big box of chocolates in a red and gold haert ... (94 words)

Do I listen to my head or my heart? I know it's a bit complex but what do you guys think?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6160 days ago

9 February 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - I few years ago I fell in love with a much younger man, in a very strange way. I never acted on it. He was in love with me too, but we never did anything about it. As it was hopeless in so many ways. One is I'm married and have children, they are older now, but still very close ... (353 words)

Looking to finally move on...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6161 days ago

9 February 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - I have been single now for about 4 weeks, I ended a 13 month relationship for the 2nd time and this time for good. The last time I eneded it we got back to together in about 4 days. I have gone through the hurt and the anger and now find myself at peace with the fact that she ... (199 words)

How can I tell if he truly does love me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6161 days ago

9 February 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm new to this but I have been with my boyfriend for a month and a week today. I really truly do love him he says he loves me but I really can't tell if he does? We agree and disagree some time but I still do love him and it's usually over stupid stuff but I mean if we ... (82 words)

How do I make myself more sophisticated without shunning my family values and without giving up a part of myself to please my guy?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6160 days ago

9 February 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - Shane is extremely good to me. I've never had someone care for me as much as he has. But at times he wishes I would dress more sophisticated. He’s accustomed to dating very feminine, classy women, and I guess he assumed when we met that I was much the same. A tomboy I’m not, ... (197 words)

Has his cake and eats it!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6160 days ago

9 February 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I made this post a few weeks ago. Our situation has changed again. We are not able to see one another at all. Are only able to talk for like a minute a couple of days a week. I send him text messages he reads but is not able to reply to most of them. He fears he is being spied ... (211 words)

What do men mean when they describe their wives or girlfriends as "controlling"?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6160 days ago

9 February 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - What do men mean when they describe their wives or girlfriends as "controlling"? If a man isn't exactly complaining, yet that is the 1st word he uses to describe the wife/GF, is this a compliment? Hate to sound so stupid, but I'm serious and need to know. THANKSSSSS for any ... (52 words)

Coming to an end... or rough patch?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5157 days ago

9 February 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Dear Cupid, I am completly in love with my boyfriend of almost a year and a half and I want to be with him forever but latley we have been having some issues... getting in a lot of little fights over nothing, been to busy with our schedules to hang out, and barely trying t... (81 words)