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*milee_Luv
writes:My boyfriend of a year invited me over to his apartment for a drink, trusting him I said yes. But when I arrived there were no drinks, he came up behind me and drugged me to his bed where he raped me, until someone started banging on the door wondering what all the noise was coming from. So I grabbed me clothes, got dressed and escaped out the window since he had locked the door. He won't stop calling and apologzing and saying that he wants me back. What should I do? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 April 2008): I totally agree with the first response. Men need to learn how to respect women. The world is so centered around women and sex. It is stupid!! I would never go back to a man who would have done that to me. I had a simmilar situation happen but he was living with me he tryed to kill me!! Be strong and move on. Don't become another statisic of abuse!!
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reader, MissKin  +, writes (20 April 2008):
 Go to the police. I know it's a lot harder than it sounds but go to the police. I can't say it enough.
He violated you, raped you, drugged you - and yet you're just sort of letting him get away with it. If you let him get away with it, he will think this sort of behaviour is something he can do often.
But let me get this right, he was your boyfriend - for a year? and he did this to you? What the hell?!! Either something has seriously come loose in his head or you never really knew who he was.
Stay away from him. Tell the police. Get him arrested and never go near him again.
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 April 2008): You should call the police and report him for raping you. This guy is dangerous, stay away from him. Tell your parents about it, go to the courthouse and file a restraining order against him immediately, that way if he comes near you he can be arrested if the police find him there.....I can't believe you would even consider an apology from this brute....he is a felon waiting to happen.
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reader, RachakaRoni +, writes (20 April 2008):
 Thats awful. I would call the police and change ur phone number. If he did that to you, then he doesnt seem like a very nice person.
Hope your okay.
xx
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reader, superbunny +, writes (20 April 2008):
 Tell him where to shove it, sweetie! How DARE he treat you like that!
As much as it may hurt to hear it, this man has no respect for you + you need to make him suffer for it. If you go back to him, it's like saying that his actions are forgiveable - which they are most certainly not. What he has done to you is unforgiveable + dam right he should be apologising to you.
Stay well away from him, sweetheart. Message me if you want to talk... x
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