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female
age
30-35,
*uperhoopschick
writes: So I have been going out with this guy for 11months now. We had 4 months together everyday, then a month in december everyday together, other than that it was jst seeing him every weekend. We sometimes would argue but then be playful toward each other, thought things were cool. But then just a few days ago. He came to me saying that he will soon have no more time for me because he has work n family issues and i have college and work. That we will both have stress and be butting heads. all i want is to have someone..so we talked and instead of being just regular friends, i convienced him to let us keep our relationship going for another month n just see how things go. But now after that talk i feel akward. Like we just need alot of space. Now, I feel like we should have just separated. he wants to hang out, but i feel weird because now i do not feel as close to him. I dont know what to do or think..any suggestions? help? maybe ideas to spark up the relationship agian??
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reader, Laura1318 +, writes (20 April 2008):
Pour more fuel and add more firewoods and light a spark....
You need to get more involved and more interested in what he
is doing at present to spark his interest.
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