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They both raped me and he still won't leave me alone.

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Question - (20 April 2008) 5 Answers - (Newest, 26 April 2008)
A female United States age 30-35, anonymous writes:

I had been dating this guy for a year, until about 3 months ago i broke up with him. He instantly started calling and harrassing me, asking me why I broke up with him and telling that he loved me and that he wanted me back. I told him it was over and that I didn't want anything to do with him. One night I was at home alone and he and one of his buddies broke into my house and raped me. One held me down while the other raped me, they even took turns, but even after doing that to me, he still won't stop calling and showing up at my house. How do I get him to leave me alone?

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A reader, anonymous, writes (26 April 2008):

He is not in love with you, he is mad you rejected him and the dual rape is to show he has power over you. GO to the police. U did not do anything wrong, he did. U need to get professional help as well to sort through this.

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A female reader, natasia United Kingdom +, writes (21 April 2008):

natasia agony auntAbsolutely just tell your parents and call the police. This guy is extremely bad news, and needs to be locked up.

Then also you will get the love and support you need - how terrible you've suffered this all alone. Tell your parents now, sweetheart. Then you might just get time to call the police before your dad kills the guy : )

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A female reader, cute angel Australia +, writes (20 April 2008):

cute angel agony auntwhat !!he says he loves u and then comes over and rapes u,even worse he let his buddy do that..dude wake up go to the police,if u dont take any action it will continue,its already out of hand..u need to stop the jerks..

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A reader, anonymous, writes (20 April 2008):

I have to say the police sounds like your best bet to me.

And you should tell your parents.

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A female reader, MissKin United Kingdom +, writes (20 April 2008):

MissKin agony auntThis is awful. And i don't know where all these 'rape questions' have suddenly sprung up from but it doesn't sound like you've gone to the police.

This is disgusting - this should never happen to anyone so i urge you, seriously, to go to the police - it's the only way to get him to leave you alone and make him and his friend get what they deserve.

Go to the police and tell your parents.

Best wishes,

x

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