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30-35,
*nwbrdr93
writes:I recently have become pretty good friends with this guy. I thought we were just friends until I started to feel something more. I had one of my friends tell him I like him, but it turns out he has a girlfriend!Since then, he's been talking to me even more than before, and we flirt with each other. He sits by me instead of other people and talks to me more than everyone else. He is not the type of guy to cheat on his girlfriend, but does he possibly have some feelings for me? I don't want to be the mean little home wrecker, but I wish he would break up with his girlfriend and go out with me.Basically I'm wondering two things:Is or can there be a spark between us even though he has a girlfriend?And, am I a horrible person for wanting him to break up with his girlfriend?
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reader, Astinson +, writes (20 April 2008):
 I don't think your a horrible person for liking someone but you should not come between two peolpe. It's not a good situation. Just remain level headed be friends and nothing more, when he becomes available then is your chance.. there can be a spark but don't let the flames ingolf you!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 April 2008): You're not a horrible person, you just like him. But what you're doing is encouraging him away from his girlfriend and this isn't right. If he likes you, he should break up with his girlfriend. Get someone to ask him if he likes you, and if he does, tell him to break up with his girlfriend otherwise you won't let him flirt anymore. You've got to be the bigger person here and back down. Please, you're putting another girl in danger of being seriously hurt, and us girls have got to stick together. Imagine if he was your guy, flirting with another girl while you were unaware? Keep your paws off him honey, because he's out of bounds and you know this.
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