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writes:I'm a 41 yr old female, married with two children = 17 and 20. My daughter is a lesbian and my son is straight. Im not married with their father anymore but have re-married a great man, but I have a new job and I think I have fallen in love with my co-worker, she is married also but she has alot of body language around me and we always find ourselves staring at each other, niether she or me say anything about it but I have strong feelings for her. Anyone out there willing to share what they think.
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 April 2008): Hi Hunny
Anyone at anytime can get a strong feeling for a friend, You are talking here of a strong sexual attraction. This is hard if you have never experienced an attraction for the same sex before as it can hit you hard and make you think more about the whole situation and about yourself and why this is happening. What you need to think about hunny is this fantasy feeling or do you really want it to go somewere as your marriage will most definatly suffer and all the emotions that go with anykind of feelings like this can hurt in the end, The body language between you is strong but you have never spoken about it to see how she feels, Do you know of her sexual preference is she bisexual hunny? If you did get involved with this friend what you really need to do is think hard about how it would affect you life as it is now, And what is missing from your life now to make you feel curious, There maybe nothing missing at all but because she may have started this attraction and you noticed it may have got your mind working overtime love. It maybe one of those things that never gets spoken about and stays a fantasy but if you find yourself one day talking with her and it maybe leading to you getting closer in that way you really have to think if its worth the pain and hurt it could cause your husband love, I belive there is nothing wrong with same sex relationships but your not single so there could be added problems if something did happen..I hope you work things out hunny I dont no if this has helped any, There is alot at stake loosing your husband if something did happen...TAKE CARE WITH LOVE N HUGS MANDY XXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXX
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reader, sweetheart03 +, writes (20 April 2008):
Um are you sure its love or lust?? If its lust maybe it could just be sexual. But love....that would hurt your husband its the same as loving another man! But ask yourself is it sexual or you really want more from her.if so tell him about it be open with him. If you can't go to lunch once!!! see what vibe you have between you and her. Good luck
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