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I'm invited to my (recent) ex's birthday party, what should I buy her?

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Question - (20 April 2008) 2 Answers - (Newest, 28 April 2008)
A male United Kingdom age 30-35, anonymous writes:

Hey guys,

probably a unique question on here...

Me and my gf of 13months recently split up, we are still in the process of getting stuff back from each others houses (we live with parents, we are only 18 and 17)

she wants us to be good friends which i see as a bit awkward at the moment, i can talk to her about stuff etc so i assume we will be mates eventually.

but anyway, it is her birthday coming up and she is having a party which i am invited to. What should i buy her? any help or advise would be great guys

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A reader, anonymous, writes (28 April 2008):

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thanks to kaykay, i have decided to make a 'friends scrapbook' where i can put lots of pics n memories in, incase we drift apart tht means she'll always be able to look back on 'us' with a smile

cheers

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A female reader, Emilysanswers United Kingdom +, writes (21 April 2008):

Bottle of wine or some beer, plus chocolate. It's a party!

That way, you have got her something apt, but not got her anything too special that she's going to feel guilty about and think you are still pining after her.

If things are still awkward then you need to take a step back and stop putting so much thought into it. You need some distance so you can get over her and she can get over you.

By getting her something that says nothing there will be no feelings involved and you can always get her something nicer and more thoughtful next year when you really are friends again rather than Ex's.

Good Luck!! xx

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