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writes:so here is how my story goes.. about 7 months ago i met the love of my life whilst i was in a relationship. i broke the relationship off immediately and starting seeing my new guy. however after 3 weeks or so i dont know what happned and before i knew it it was all over. about 3 months ago however we started bumping into each other more and more often by accident(as we work in same area).he has gf now that he apparently is really in love with but jus last week we ended up in bed and he told me how much he misses being with me and stuff. i dont know what to do. its been 7 months and i tried moving on n i cant. is there anything i can do to bring him back to me? thank you Reply to this Question
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reader, jenxlovesxyou  +, writes (20 April 2008):
 the best way to get him back possibly is act like you dont care that will leave him mysterious and suspicous...you cant have sex behind his girlfriends back that will make things worse..but be careful of how much you act like you dont care sometimes you can do it to much or to less just walk past him without looking and without stopping to say hi..act normal just like a friend nothing more..if he really does miss you he will come crawling back for you if you do this if he doesnt he will leave whatever he choses just make sure its what you want and be strong about his chose if he choses her its his lose if he choses you make sure he wont make the mistake of ending it again and that you can trust him..because if he had sex with you witout his girl knowing you want to be sure you can trust him that he wont do that to you..goood luckhope this helps
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 April 2008): thank you you gave me hope
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 April 2008): thank you you gave me hope
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reader, Emilysanswers  +, writes (20 April 2008):
Yes there is a chance but you have to be really strong.
If you let him come to you for sex behind his girlfriends back then he is just going to have the best of both worlds and keep you both dangling.
Next time you see him, tell the sex was a mistake. You are not the kind of girl to be the "other woman" tell him you are willing to give it another go but only when he's single. Tell him he obviously has feelings for you since he cheated on his Gf, but you aren't willing to be with a cheat so he'll have to prove he wants to be with you.
When he sees how strong and confident you are he'll know you aren't just going to crumble and he has to do some thinking.
Then back off and just be his friend until he decides, but make sure you look gorgeous every time you see him.
If he picks her then you know he's a cheating user and isn't worth your time. If he picks you then make sure you stay confident, strong and sexy so he doesn't stray back to his Ex.
Good Luck!! xx
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reader, Amac +, writes (20 April 2008):
I don't know what to say to help you in some ways but if it's any consolation I feel the same about a guy I fell in love with. I thought I'd moved on and though I would NEVER give away to anyone, especially him, that I haven't, I can't. It's been four months and my feelings have not changed. SO you are not alone. Good luck. I hope someone has some more helpful suggestions but just wanted you to know you are not alone :)
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