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******love*******
writes:i broke up with my boyfriend od 6 months because he said hes finding it hard not to be tempted by other girls.i realy liked him and miss him lots, i care alot for him and it hurts that were not together. we' ve remained friend as we got along realy well.he keeps asking me if im still pissed off, he even asked me on the day. and i was like of corse i am. so i asked him if he thinks i felt anything for him and he said NO, i realy do and it realy bugs me that he felt that i did'nt.plus.. he said hes never been with a woman that hasent said I LOVE YOU within 6months.what do i do?
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reader, salvation +, writes (24 April 2008):
well if you want to know where you stand be direct and ask him. Good luck
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reader, ******love******* +, writes (24 April 2008):
******love******* is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthank you for all the advice.at the moment weve just been talking on the phone the problem is that he now that were just friends now hes acting like were still together, this started after i told him how i felt about him.he wants me to see him on sunday.i want to know where i stand with him.
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reader, ******love******* +, writes (24 April 2008):
******love******* is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthank you for all the advice.at the moment weve just been talking on the phone the problem is that he now that were just friends now hes acting like were still together, this started after i told him how i felt about him.he wants me to see him on sunday.i want to know where i stand with him.
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reader, butterflyAJA  +, writes (20 April 2008):
 I think you need to appreciate that's he's being honest with you. It's better than him going behind your back & cheating on you. Just try to give him some space. Try to do your own thing for awhile. If its meant to be then it will be. Good Luck.
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reader, salvation +, writes (20 April 2008):
give him a little space and just be friends i think you should go out with some friends and have some fun move on.
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reader, Astinson +, writes (20 April 2008):
 Stay true to yourself.. Thats all you have in this world. If you had feelings for him let him know that but do not say something you don't mean. If he has never had a girl that has not said i love you to him within 6 months, maybe he needs to slow his roll and see what he has in front of him.. real love or a friend as do you.. If your ment to be with him, it will happen trust me.. it happened to me!! we stayed friends for 3 years while we dated 2 times and broke it off and saw other people. We have been together for 2+ years now and i am happy we broke up and got back together.. We are so close now its like he shares my brain
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 April 2008): strikes me he's playing mind games with you. by saying that most girls have said "i love you" by the six month mark after you have broken up suggests that it is you who has the problem and not him so perhaps is his way of ridding himself of guilt or alternatively pressuring you to admit to something. now lets face it 6 months is not a huge amount of time so there is absolutely no reason why you should have done. i think that you have done the right thing by breaking up with this man as it now gives him enough rope to hang himself with... if he said that he is tempted by other women he now has the chance to either fulfill this urge thereby proving to you that he is a waste of space or realize how truly lucky he was to have you. don't beat yourself up. you have avoided the infidelity situation which would have been much worse and have can now hold your head up high no matter what the outcome. hope this helps.
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