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writes:I love giving my girlfriend oral and I don't expect her to return the favor. I would eventually like for her to give me oral. It's not a dealbreaker or anything, she is inexperienced with sex as a whole but we care about each other deeply. My question is, will she ever come around to giving me oral. Like i said i don't mind if she doesn't but i would love it if she did. Reply to this Question
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reader, jaytee1982 +, writes (8 June 2008):
jaytee1982 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionoh joy!! it has happen, thanks for your help ladies!!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 April 2008): We really can't say if she will do it, eventually. But you can find out if she would be willing, at some time in the future. Most closely bonded couples do the 'sex talk' thing. A time where they open up and tell each other what they like and don't like when it comes to sex. I think you and she should talk about it, in a fun, casual way. You can be open and tell her you enjoy that aspect of lovemaking. There are women out there that feel empowered and good to give blowjobs to their loved ones and then there are women that sadly, feel 'sub servient' and don't enjoy the act at all. So, the most important ingredient a woman should have to giving great blowjobs is...a good attitude. You should find out what her perception and attitude is towards fellatio. If she approaches this as fun and giving to you, you and she will enjoy the experience, when it occurs. If she approaches this as something that disgusts her, or even a chore, then in my opinion, she shouldn't bother doing it.
But the ultimate decision will be left up to her. I also commend you for not pressuring her..that is a sign of respect and love for her. If she's inexperienced, perhaps she needs time to learn more about it. Talk to her..ask her nicely, about it. Let her know what you like. A sexual relationship is about 'giving and sharing' to each other. A couple should be open with each other, on their wants in a sexual relationship. There is nothing wrong with that. Good Luck and I wish you both the best.
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 April 2008): Hi Hunny
As she gets more comfortable she will, She may feel scared that she may do something wrong and that may hold her back sweetheart, Give her time and she may supprise you, TAKE CARE LOVE MANDY XXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXX
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