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Met my old flame, we still have unresolved feelings for each other but are both married!

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Question - (20 April 2008) 3 Answers - (Newest, 12 September 2010)
A female United States age 41-50, *arrie29 writes:

It started when I was only 15 I met a guy who was two or three years older than me. We were so attracted to each other but I would never act on it. My parents would not have approved. Buy the time I got in my sophmore year of high school he had went off to the navy. When he came back for a visit I was dating a guy who was on of his friends. At the time I didn't know they were friends. Anyways to make a long story short we never got the chance to see where our relationship would have went to. He moved away i graduated got married and just recently found him. he is married also. we have been talking back and forth through my space im's and we still realize that we still have unresloved feelings for each other and I can't get him out of my head he is there all day and all night i just don't know what to do. We don't want to hurt any one but how do we get over feelings that we never got to experince for each other.

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A male reader, jimrich United States +, writes (12 September 2010):

Shift your emotional needs to your current partner and try to let the old partner go.

If you feel 'addicted' to the old partner, seek some kind of counseling or therapy.

Your current partner deserves better.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (21 April 2008):

Dont do anything. Just walk away and put 100% into your partners. Forget about him.

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A male reader, salvation United Kingdom +, writes (20 April 2008):

you need to talk to him about it but above all keep the relationship as just a close friendship dont take it anyfurther than that

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