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*enxlovesxyou
writes:i dont know how to tell my mother my life.its like im living 2 lifes and she doesnt know half of me or any of me.my bestfriend knows more about me then my own mother does..i feel like me and he dont keep in touch and that im not important to her because she doesnt ask me what is going on in my life and she doesnt ask me how was my day she doesnt try to talk to me she basicaly ignores me..i have tried many times to talk to her but she pushes me away.she doesnt know any except one of my ex boyfriends she doesnt even know my current boyfriend.i have had alottt of boyfriends and the fact that my mom doesnt pay attention to my life she doesnt pay attention to my love life thats why im on here..i need alot of help.i want to tell my mom my second life she doesnt know about..but i dont know how.and my ex wont leave me alone..he keeps going to the places i go and im starting to get very scared because he is my ex that raped me.how do i tell my mom my second life?and how do i get him to leave me alone without putting him in jail?
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reader, jenxlovesxyou +, writes (22 April 2008):
jenxlovesxyou is verified as being by the original poster of the question thx..this has rele helped me...i called the site they helped also(:
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reader, Emilysanswers  +, writes (21 April 2008):
Not all mothers are perfect. That's why it's important to have friends and not just boyfriends.
Report your ex to the police. They can help you get a restraining order on him so he can't follow you round and will leave you alone or get locked up. Talk to a friend's mum or your boyfriend's mum for help if you need it.
Talk to your friends about everything and don't worry so much about your mum.
Your family are the people yo chose to have in your life.
Good Luck!! xx
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 April 2008): Oh sweetheart
Can you not say to your mum please I nead to talk to you its really important I need you to listen to me...Have you no one in the family that you can talk to that will listen if your mum wont hunny, About this ex b/f forget about worrying about if he goes to jail or not you shouldnt feel scared hunny you should report this lad for what he did to you he may do it to another girl, If this is impossible for you to do then you will have to go somewere else sweetheart with your friend away from were he is and just keep well away from him at all times, I would try and find someone in your family you can open up and talk to though, you cant go through this alone sweetheart I found link hunny this may help alot.....
http://www.childhelp.org/get_help
If you mum wont listen try giving them a ring they will listen hunny TAKE CARE OF YOU WITH LOTS OF LOVE AND HUGS MANDY XXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXX
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