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writes:i am 15 and i am dating a 12 year old i hav had a major crush on me for 9 months and a couple of months ago she told me she loved me, i asked her to b my girlfriend, she siad yes, we have been dating 3 weeks and we still havnt spoke face 2 face, we are both reli shy and i gets to us both, we love each other soooo much, how can i overcome being shy? and is it right that the is nerli 3 years difference between our ages?
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reader, Kayleigh :)  +, writes (30 November 2007):
 Hello :)
No, its not wrong that there is 3 years difference between you and your girlfriend, if you love each other then thats all that matters. Try to overcome your shyness by practicing what to say to her in a mirror. Just try and show the girl that you are not shy and will talk to her face to face and she will start to become less shy. Give it a go and see what happens. You will get used to it and it will be so much easier to talk to your girlfriend after a little while. Feel free to message me back to tell me if it worked or not.
Hope that helped
Best of luck :)
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reader, Minelisse  +, writes (30 November 2007):
 Usually males mature later than females so it might not be a real difference among you two. The only one who will really know that is the two of you and how are you able or not to talk and communicate with each other.
Don't rush anything, if the two of you feel comfortable like this then let it be. Try to meet in a public place, maybe with other friends, like a group outing, so you both start to feel comfortable with each other. The important thing is to do whatever feels comfortable for the both of you. Good luck!
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reader, sexyslosh +, writes (30 November 2007):
i see that age is just a number...dont worry about that and if anyone tells you different they are just shallow. as long as you are not doing anything illegal then I dont see wat the problem is...thing is tho you need to speak to her. ask her to go cinema with you and some of your friend and get her to bring some friends then it wont involve too much pressure or try tlkin on the phone more...hope you overcome this...
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