A
female
age
41-50,
anonymous
writes:I'm really confused about my sexuality. I'm pretty sure that I'm bi-sexual, but I'm not exactly sure. The only way I can really get sexually aroused when I have sex with my husband is if I think about gay sex. (That includes men and women). My husband never really participates in foreplay anymore unless it consists of me sucking and/or licking his genitiles. Could that be why I think of gay sex to excite myself? I have had a couple of lesbian experiences in the past (before my marriage) and I absolutely loved it. As a matter of fact, my husband and I have discussed the possibility of having a 3 way, but I'm not so sure that I would be comfortable with that as I know I would not be comfortable with him touching her. Is that a double standard? He says he would only watch, but who knows what might happen in the heat of the moment. I feel like such a horn dog for craving sex with another woman, but I can't stop thinking about it. Am I normal? Please help!
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reader, hello1  +, writes (1 December 2007):
 Women in your situation happens quite a bit actually! Your husband first is ignoring your sexual needs, he seems content with you only sastifying him. Please stop it, don't give him oral till he gives it back. It seems like you already know your bisexual and enjoy sex with women, makes me wonder why you married an man? social standards? Anyway talk to your husband and say you like to have sex with an woman but ALONE, if he dosen't agree then go out and do it without him knowing, he's not meeting your needs in the bedroom as he's an selfish lover so it be his fault at the end of the day!
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