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36-40,
anonymous
writes:i've been in long distance relationship with my hunny for the past 2 yrs now and all was goin on well until september when he changed his university n he had to move out to other town. he stopped callin me so often as it used to be before coz he claims having financial probs n he even refused to come to me for X-mas coz he aint got enough money even if I sent him some of my savings. he also told me that he cant promise me that we're gonna talk on phone twice a week so now we only talk once a week coz he aint got time to call me coz he says he is busy with his studies n preparin for upcoming exams and that he got a lot of work coz in july 2008 he finished his studies n he got more work than before. and he only send me 1 or 2 texts daily or sometimes even no message not talkin of mails.but as am calling him he got time 2 talk 2 me so wat is goin on with him then?pls help me
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reader, bqagirl2692  +, writes (1 December 2007):
 It seems to me that he is using his school work as an excuse to get rid of this relationship the both of you have. Maybe it is time to find someone who is willing to commit and make time for you instead of wasting your time on a person who can't seem to find time for you. Maybe he is starting to move on and you should take it as a sign that you should to. School can be pretty rough at times but to me theres no excuse to not pick up a phone or a pen and communicate to the person you love.
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