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After I fainted 3 yrs ago, my penis has never been hard enough and I cannot last for more than 5 minutes. Medical results are apparently fine but the problem persists.

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Question - (30 November 2007) 1 Answers - (Newest, 1 December 2007)
A male United States age 41-50, anonymous writes:

I am 29 and married. Around 3 years ago, when I was having sex atleast twice a day, I suddenly fainted in my bathroom and after 15 minutes or so, found myself on the bathroom floor. After that day onwards, my penis has never been hard enough. Something is wrong with my hormones. I do not feel the urge to kiss my wife on her lips. Yeah, I know what I am saying, but it is true. Nothing has gone wrong with her, but from my side, everything appears to be horrible.

Previously, I could last for an hour and with patience during sex. After that fainting incident, I have never had sex more than once in a day and that even out of compulsion. I, however, feel the urge to have intercourse every 3rd day, but again, I cannot last long enough for her to reach orgasm and I am not hard enough. It is just not the same as before. Also, kisses are part of romance and I wish I feel that kind of urge to just eat the lips of my partner like before, but now it comes to me as a compulsion. My wife clearly knows since then that something is wrong but has been accepting, or rather tolerating.

I went to see a urologist and he had me have some hormone tests. Apparently, the results are fine. Another urologist required me to have my semen tested, which I did, and he only said that the sperm is slightly weak, but not so weak that I cannot help my wife conceive.

First issue concerns the hardness, and the second probably, my non-urging for kissing on the lips. Maybe they are interlinked. Could someone advise? I have heard you can do so much with internet and good websites like these. I have yet to find out.

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A male reader, auvi Bangladesh +, writes (1 December 2007):

the urology reports were fine because i think your problem is more psychological than physical. maybe you are still shocked and tensed about that fit and which is affecting your mind.

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