I think she is bored, with the relationship... should I let her go?

A male age 30-35, *ovesucks writes:

i have been with my girlfriend for almost 14 months. id like to believe that i treat her as well as i possibly can because she is my world. i met her when i was 16 and right when i met her i knew she was the one. we had an incredible relationship for a very long time until recently things started to go downhill. we have the type of relationship where we are sure to let eachother know how we feel wether it be spilling out our hearts with i love you's or talking about what we do not like about eachother. recently she has been acting different. our phone conversations are silent because it feels like there is just nothing left to talk about, which is weird because we used to talk at least 4 or 5 hours every night. she said it was because i dont tell her anything which i wil admit happens sometimes because of the type of person i am, i do not like to talk about myself but i promised that i would try much harder and give effort. i have been trying and i thought i was doing well but the problem is that she has not given any effort at all. i want to make things work because we have made so many plans together and i am so in love with her. we have gotten to the point where i do not think she cares about our relationship anymore. most conversations are dull and quiet and end with a simple goodnight. it kills me that she refuses to say that she loves me because i know that she does. i do not know how to handle this situation and i really need help on what to say to her or do about the problem.

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