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Is she right for me?

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Question - (30 November 2007) 3 Answers - (Newest, 1 December 2007)
A male United Kingdom age 30-35, anonymous writes:

there's this girl i've liked alot for over a year. Its come to a point where i'm crazy over but her am not asking her out because i'm scared of losing the great friendship we have.

One of her friends, also mine who knows i like the girl told me that last time i walked past when she saw me comin she "sorted" herself out, god knows what she meant, she meant straightning her scarf etc i guess.

And she started walkin alot slower so i can walk straight into her from behind.

But this is a sign she's picked up for me.

The signs i picked up were 2months ago durin holidays where she rang me simply because she saw me out and about and told me to meet her. Than in school she would just go for walks with me. But none of it is obvious for me. Sometimes she just never talks, i always make the effort to talk to her but whenever she does talk its a smile in return which makes my day! Lol

So could anybody assist me on what i could do? She is really shy. Even if i do tell her i don't know what her response would be? Would she say yes or no straight away?

Its first time for both of us for dating

Thanks alot to any legend who help me out there. Thanks

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A female reader, keely-h United Kingdom +, writes (1 December 2007):

keely-h agony aunti liked a boy for about a year i didnt make a move, what happend is he got a girlfreind !which upset me and which made it worst. his girlfreind was mean and we dont exactly get along. after they broke up he liked me for about a month since we were both shy to make a move the feelings gone away.go for it, it sounds like she likes you, good luck xxx

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A female reader, Charley Coles United Kingdom +, writes (30 November 2007):

Hey ..

Totally go for it hon there aint no point holding back if ur crazy about her at least u give it a shot tell her i don't want to lose a great friendship but seriously tell her how u feel

Signed ;; Charlaa

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A female reader, YerMum United Kingdom +, writes (30 November 2007):

YerMum agony auntWell...

I think it's best to tell you how you feel firstly; so if she does like you, she may follow your lead. If she doesn't say anything; I don't think she'd tell anyone since she's shy.

That's like the same situation i'm in when a boy told me he fancied me. PM me if you've got a user and we'll chat =]

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