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Should I dump my boyfriend and go after the other guy??

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Question - (30 November 2007) 3 Answers - (Newest, 3 December 2007)
A female Lebanon age 36-40, anonymous writes:

hey,i was in love with this guy. when suddenly we became girlfreind and boyfreind.he had another girl on his mind at that time, but i was sure that he loved me.and worried that he will keep thinking about her. so we broke up( stayed freinds), he became her boyfreind, and after that he told me that he doesn't want her. and that she has ruined his chances with me!

he told me that he wanted to leave her, but for some reaon ( donno why) i told him to try and work things out!

i think that he is going to break up with her. while i have a boyfreind now... and my boyfreind doesn't wanna give me up!

should i dump my boyfreind and go after the other guy??

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A female reader, bqagirl2692 United States +, writes (3 December 2007):

bqagirl2692 agony auntNo you shouldnt dump your current boyfriend for a guy in your past. There is a reason he didnt make it to your future. You are giving him the signs that he can come to you whenever he pleases. Dont give him the reason to think that way. Have more respect for yourself and the guy you are with.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (1 December 2007):

Hey! Enough people have probably been hurt by all of this so stick with your bf and tell him to get lost. He doesnt know what he wants so you make a stand and be strong.

take care

xx

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (1 December 2007):

go with your heart, you've been apart, but that doesn't mean you cannot be together now that you can.

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