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30-35,
anonymous
writes:I've been working in my new job now for a few weeks, and i think one of my managers may have a crush on me, over the last few weeks hes been getting steadily more and more friendly towards me and i catch him staring at me alot. He always asks how my works going and helps me quite a bit as well and its unusual as my job is mostly manual lifting and he doesn't have to do that at all as hes been promoted above that. He's quite abit older, i'd say mid thirties but he isn't married. Do you think he could like me?
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 January 2008): Yeah, i think so. Sounds like my situation. I've gotten on great woth my boss from day one. After about a year, we got really pally and had a hug every day then, a couple of months later, he asked me out for a drink. Just the two of us. We were touchy feeling, and he kissed me. He is 21 years older then me. He has a girlfriend but don't seem happy. We've met up for drinks every few weeks and have a bit of a kiss and cuddle in work when nobody is around. It's nothing serious. we are good friends more then anything. But since your boss is single, i'd say go for it!
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reader, Samutsen  +, writes (30 November 2007):
 It seems so. there are millions out there who are dating their collegues bosses. And He is single.
Surely since you call him boss then there is a slight problem. If you are directly under him, you may not feel comfortable about it, since it would appear that he is taking the advantage of a professional status over you in getting your privacy. And your friends may or may not appreciate it. But it does not necessarily mean he is really using his position. he may really like you.
So yes he likes you and if you do like her also, you may go out with him but consider the costs and try to know whether he is really interested in you or just using his position to get sex.
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 November 2007): Yes I do, and it is not appropriate. I had a boss once who start this behaviour and it sickened me. I think you should be very careful and let him know firmly that his attention is not needed or desired.
This sounds a bit like something which may turn into something very uncomfortable for you so you need to be careful. Maybe there is someone at work who you could talk to to give you some sort of support. Equally, I hope you are not entertaining the thought of a relationship with him as he is trouble and married. Just be careful and do not encourage him. If he does get a little too close tell him you would appreciate it is he left you be.
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