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writes:If i ask out a girl face to face tell her everything how do i? After i tell her i like her, ask her out? We're both 17.Should i expect a reply? If she needs time how do i give her time? Won't it be awkward until i get the answer? Lol easiest option would be to run for my life lol. Please help. First time asking face to face. Thanks Reply to this Question
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reader, heartbrokenhelper  +, writes (7 November 2010):
 i , myself had many a guys "crush" on me. yet they never get up he courage to ask, so kudos to you for wanting to try!
well what you should do is follow these steps....
1. never throw paper at her to get her to turn around..(it would get her attention, yet it wont win her heart.)
2.try to strike up convesation with her before poping the question
3. please show emotion , it show that your not a not emotional robotic jerk.(not saying you are)
4.compliment her, (never use the word perfect, maybe use the term beautiful not hot.)
5.be presentable , dress nicely
6. speak clearly
7. and then finally say somthing like "well you have been on my mind alot latley, and i am starting to feel as though we could work well together, and so mabye you would like to get smothies(i dont know what you would do) somtime , and i hope that you feel this way aswell."
and so on... well good luck with this and i hope all goes well
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 May 2010): If u are meet the girl for the first time,just tell her all about you den tell her u we like 2 knw her more ask if would we like to go out 4 drink with u.relationship is not just in one day after some week tell her what u fill about her.:-@8-)
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reader, Elenadog19 +, writes (14 January 2010):
You just ask her or him out no restrictions. jut alk up and ask. I they need time just wait a week or two and ask if they are redy to go out.If refusd agian just give more time and give up if refused agin. Maybe they will consiter you! the way to go on a first date make it a group date to make it more comfertible.
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 August 2008): What if she says I dont know first time and you say is it ok to ring you and she says yes. What does this mean
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reader, secrets5 +, writes (27 July 2008):
there is no better way to be asked out than face to face because it shows the guy is sincere! just catch her alone and say that youve been thinking about her and wondered if she wanted to go or do *activity*. say it like you mean it beacause that is hotttt!!! if she says yes then say something like 'great, so ill meet you *time and place???*'. if she says no then say fine but your happy that you told her how you felt, and if she needs time then say thats also fine and dont rush her, if she hasnt told you in a week then you could talk to her again. xxx
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 April 2008): if you want to ask a girl out look her directly in the eye so she knows your serious about her and tell her how much youve been thinking about her and how long you have liked her i hope that works thats how i got my girl
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 February 2008): yeah, you should either say look, i like you, you wanna meet up some time? or if your friends say, i really like you and i was thinking maybe we could be more than just friends. good luck
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reader, elliebellie +, writes (3 December 2007):
hiya! wel first thing u need to think about is what youre going to do when you go out. so start a normal conversation then say oh u know that movie at the cinema thats just come out *give title* do u wanna go see that?then if she says yes then great! if she says no then just say ok.lolplease feel free to mail me bout anything else u wanna talk about.elliexxx
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 November 2007): I would ask her out face-to-face to show her that you are sincere and that you really do want to go out with her.
The best thing would be to get her on her own - sit next to her on the bus, invite her to go into town, etc. start talking normally and build up a friendly conversation and when you're ready just tell her how you feel - and ask her if she wants to go out with you!
She might answer right away, she might not. All girls are different and will respond in different ways.
Chill!!!
Good luck x x x
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reader, Kayleigh :) +, writes (30 November 2007):
 Hello :)
I think that you should ask this girl out face to face, if she needs time then yes give her time. She would appreciate you asking her out to her face than by a text message or something like that. If the girl does say no, dont worry, be proud that you had the courage to ask her out face to face. But yes do ask her out and yes do do it face to face, its so much better and the girl will know that your not scared and that..
Hope i helped you
best of luck asking the girl out :)
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reader, clh91 +, writes (30 November 2007):
 i'd suggest just sitting her down and talking to her tell her everything that you feel.
she'll appreciate that.
then ask her out and if she needs time then give her time and ask her to ring or let her know as soon as possible.
you don't want to be hanging around for an answer for ages.
yes it will be probably a little awkward if you do have to wait but it could be worth n im sure you'll have plenty awkward moments whatever the outcome.
hope i helped:)
feel free to mail message me about anything if you want to
xxx
if its a yes then happy days.
if its a no then you'll just have to let it be.
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