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Slept with the ex and now I don't know what to do.

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Question - (30 November 2007) 4 Answers - (Newest, 28 January 2008)
A male United States, anonymous writes:

So I slept with my ex last night. We dated for a year and had a horrible breakup, and wound up not talking for a whole year up until last night really. We ran into each other at a local pizza pub and then decided to meet up later at a bar. Anyways, last night felt as though that whole year of us not talking didn't exist. It was like we were dating again.

So we go back to her place. The next morning, we were lying in bed, "pillowtalking" and I go to kiss her on the lips, she hesitated, so I stopped, then later that morning she rolls over and we make out for a good half hour. Then when I was leaving I tried to kiss her goodbye and she didn't want to, so we just hugged and went our separate ways.

I just dunno what to do, part of me likes the closer, and part of me wants to see what might become of her... any suggestions.??

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A reader, anonymous, writes (28 January 2008):

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Ok so I just slept with her again last night, its the first time i've seen her since November and almost a year to the day of our breakup.... its just a very odd coincidence.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (3 December 2007):

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So I just got a text from here, its been three days. She said that she had fun and thanked me for the evening. So I don't know what her thoughts are anymore. I left thinking it was just sex but then why is she texting me?

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A male reader, auvi Bangladesh +, writes (1 December 2007):

this is the think... she cant get fully off the break up so she has hesitations... she refused to kiss you because of that. also she has part of her old love for you , which is why she kissed you.

so she exists in a mixed state of these two feelings.

hang out with her more and avoid being intimate ... like, wrap her around ur arms and kiss forehead , but not lips. let her repair her mind about you first. then i am sure she'll come back slowly

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A reader, anonymous, writes (1 December 2007):

Any suggestions for what?? Sorry I just don't know what you are asking.

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