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Can she go to a doctor and see if she's a virgin.

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Question - (9 December 2007) 4 Answers - (Newest, 10 December 2007)
A female Canada age 30-35, anonymous writes:

If a 5 year-old girl did anything sexual would she still be considered a virgin at the age of 17? For example if she were to go to the doctor to get checked to see if she was a virgin or not would the doctor say that she is a virgin or that she is not a virgin?

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A female reader, Minelisse Puerto Rico +, writes (10 December 2007):

Minelisse agony auntVirginity is determined physiologically by the hymen which is a membrane that partially covers the vagina. However, some women are born with a torn hymen or even with non at all so their virginity could not be defined by this.

If, while 5, she was sexually molested by any sort of penetration, then this hymen could have braked thus she would not be, physiologically, a virgin (although natural reconstruction could be possible in her case). However, virginity means you had sexual intercourse and she did not endure this as it was not her choice. Therefore, by all means, she should be considered and consider herself a virgin.

Hope that helps.

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A male reader, GreenTea United States +, writes (10 December 2007):

More info needed.

Sexual is defined as way more but not necessarily including sex.

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (10 December 2007):

Depeneds on your definition of a virgin. Usually a girl (or guy really) is still a virgin until they decide to have sex on their own. While medically a girl could not be considered a virgin (for example because the hymen may be destroyed), the girl can still say she is a virgin because she did not choose to have sex of her own consent.

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A female reader, huneygyrl United States +, writes (10 December 2007):

huneygyrl agony auntFirst of all, 5 years old? What in the world? Where were your parents?

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