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writes:So I'm very confused, and looking for some guidance...I recently slept with an ex. We had dated for a year and were planning on a long future, when we had a bad breakup and for a LONG time we weren't talking. Recently I ran into her one day and she asked me out for a couple of drinks. During the evening, after getting over the awkward-ness of not having seen each other in so long, we loosened up (the liquor helped too). At the end of the evening it was like we were dating again. So I went back to her apartment. The next morning we said our goodbyes and I went in for a kiss and she hesitated and then hugged me for a long time. We went our separate ways, and all week I've been thinking about her. I would love to have her back but I don't know if thats how she feels. She sent me a text message "thanking me for the other evening it was fun."How can I tell if she wants to get back with me, I'm afraid that she thought of it as just sex.
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reader, Samutsen  +, writes (9 December 2007):
 Of course she wants you back mate...
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reader, birdynumnums  +, writes (9 December 2007):
 That was an opening. Not sure where it might lead, but if she wasn't interested, I don't think she would have texted you. She might be fishing here to find out how you feel. I am sorry if I get your hopes up and it doesn't work out, but that's the way that this looks to me. Best of luck.
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