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writes:I want to tell my close friend about my feelings.I want to tell her i really like this girl, and explain how long and also that i'm afraid she won't feel the same and risk of ruining the friendship and ask her. What do you reckon i sholud do? She wud say ask her still i know, she will ask who is it, i will say that special girl i like is you!Is that a good idea? This way i can explain how much i like her before i tell her its her so she listens to everythin before hand! Reply to this Question
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reader, birdynumnums  +, writes (9 December 2007):
 "Nothing ventured, Nothing gained" and "Faint heart never won Fair Maiden".
I think that it is a VERY sweet way to tell her. Are you prepared for both outcomes (just in case)? I DO hope that it's the one that you wish for.
Best of luck, Dear - I am rooting for you!
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 December 2007): Bite the bullet, tell her, find a way. tell her how you feel, ask her out. If you want you can tell her that there is someone you really like and then reveal that its her, that would be romantic and would gain her trust.
Or you could ask her out, straight, this would give you a more defined answer.
I am in the same situation as you, and have been a few times, i find that after telling someone of your feelings things get alot easier. although perhaps asking her out straight would be a better ieda, otherwise you get stuck in a place where you dont exactly know how she feels.
Be brave and good luck
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reader, Somethingeasy  +, writes (9 December 2007):
 Highschool crush? Dont destroy a good relationship. You have 2 options. Tell her out right and dont beat around the bush, and she will either say, ''I feel the same way'' or ''sorry I just do like you that way''. Im guessing its going to be the latter.
Find another girl and wait on the one you like. Dont ruin it. It may just unfold for you in a few years.
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