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writes:I have found out that my boyfriend looks at pissing porn and I dont know what to do. I find it really weird and it makes me feel abit sick that he gets off on watching this. He does not understand why i am so upset and says that it is just porn on the internet. Am i over reacting and should i just accept that he likes this type of porn or do other people think its weird?
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 December 2007): If you dont like it then let him know, i am sure he will take your feelings on board. I think blokes just have to experiment and this may be just something he is going through. Talk to him and be strong.
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reader, Crisy +, writes (9 December 2007):
 Lads do get off on porn, its in a girls nature to get grossed out by it but i dont think there is one lad that doesnt like to feel himself over it. I was routing through my ex's phone once and i accadentally came across afew naughty videos. But i nearly wet myself laughing, at least you know hes not gay. But if you really dont like it, tel him not to watch it infront of you. But dont let it bother you too much, at least hes not cheating on you,
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 December 2007): well everyone has differnt fetishs n he must just like pissing
i no it may sound weird to u but if thats what he likes you have to accept it.
why dont u talk to him about how you feel and hear it from his side.
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reader, Samutsen  +, writes (9 December 2007):
 I admit it is a bit out of step with what we regard as classical/conventional sex or fantasy.
In an ideal, natural world, no one would watch porn (we are not meant to watch it we are supposed to do it) but here we are we what we have created for ourselves.
Now, it is not a gay porn (since as his girl friend this would freak you out) and it is not like two+one in either combination.His watching pissing videos or pics doesn't also mean that he want to do it. compare it with watching horror movies, CI tv, or realty tv or even watching on live tv court cases. We don't want to be part of it but we are thrilled.
Even if he wanted to do it with YOU, it is not evil, and if you agreed it would sound ok to me.
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 December 2007): I dont know what it's like to have a boyfriend that likes 'pissing porn', but i can agree with you that it's not a nice thing but i do think as it is your boyfriend that watchs this you should under stand that this could just be a phase he is going through and that maybe you should confrunt him on the fact you dont like this and that if he's to watch it that maybe he should watch it in private and and never bring the subject up when your about even if he's just messing around with his friends.
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