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writes:I'm a 15 yr old girl and I kinda have a problem. Recently I found a girl that's bisexual like me and I get along with her very well. She has a personality like no other that I've met. One day she asked me If I ever had a relationship with another girl, I said that I haven't but I'm interested ... After that she told me a lot of things that were new for me and I liked that.She told me that she had dreams with me where we were kissing and she'd like to try this.All went well , I felt very happy with her and I liked that I have someone to talk with.. She told me that she met a guy and wants to hook up with him. I was kinda surprised because after all she told me now she wants to be with a boy. :P My question is .. should I tell her what I feel for her?
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 December 2007): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionyeah but I'm afraid..
If I tell her and She rejects me? I will loose a friendship...
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 December 2007): This is a tricky one! Being bisexual does, of course, mean you'll find both sexes attractive. And, much like if you're just straight or gay, if you think someone you like is uninterested, chances are you'll move on to the next person you like (I know it sounds like I'm judging her, I'm not meaning to, I'm just saying from experience. =) )
I am surprised, though, that you didn't let her know already that you were interested in her, particularly after what she told you about herself and other girl/girl relationshsips. This is more than likely her own hint of telling you she likes you! I really think you should come clean with this girl, because it's unlikely her interest in you will have faded. Otherwise, you'll just carry around feeling of unrequited love and get hurt when she goes with someone else.
Let her know!
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 December 2007): yes tell her.i'm bi myelf.but i have to keep the girl i like a secret.i told a few of my friends.a few of my friends r bi too.i don't know the girl i like is into me or if she is into girls.i know her from church.she always stars at me and talks to me shy
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reader, alieP91  +, writes (10 December 2007):
 yes but don't let it get in the way of what she wants and if a relationship with you isn't what she wants then sometimes you just have to deal with it.
Talking is the answer to most of peoples problems with other people.
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