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How can I gain confidence so that my personality shines through??

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Question - (9 December 2007) 1 Answers - (Newest, 23 March 2008)
A male United States age 30-35, *lockit writes:

My friend said some girls thought I was cute but my personality sucked. I am smart, nice, and don't see why they think my personality is so bad. I am not very confident around girls. How can I get more confident, make them see my real personality and get a girlfriend?

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A male reader, macmichael United Kingdom +, writes (23 March 2008):

That last advice is terrable ! Ive been listening to women say this to me since i was 16 (13 years) and being myself got me knowwhere ever ive literally never had a girl even for a one night stand just being myself! girls HATE UNDERCNFIDENCE more than anything they hate it! if your like this then your going to have to accept that you wownt get a girl!!!

p.s doing things your good at might improve your confidence generally but wownt help in getting girls if it did then everyone who was good at something would just have lots of girls. Im good at taekwondo and design?? where are my girlfriends????

Try hanging round with people who are good with girls that way might get a reject of theirs or at least you wil know a bit more on how to approach them!

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