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reader, sweetheart22  +, writes (10 December 2007):
I think whenever you are sure that you love the person then that is when you can say it.
If you arn't sure if you love them, then don't say it.
Love takes time so if you have only been in a relationship for a couple weeks you probably don't know them enough to love them (that may vary).
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 December 2007): The first few weeks. I think after 8 weeks you have a fair idea if you love the person, but never just say it because the other person has, you have to mean it.
take care
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female
reader, Crisy  +, writes (9 December 2007):
 Its never too soon to say 'I love you' as long as your 100% sure you mean it.
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reader, bellachic385 +, writes (9 December 2007):
 A few weeks in.
Generally wait until you are ready, when you really mean it.
That is something that takes time and can't be said as a substitute for likeing them.
It will be worth the wait.
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male
reader, Jamer70 +, writes (9 December 2007):
 when you dont mean it
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