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The sex is great but I just cant seem to climax. Is there something wrong with me??

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Question - (9 December 2007) 1 Answers - (Newest, 9 December 2007)
A female United States age 36-40, anonymous writes:

I am a 22 yr old female and have been with my current boyfriend for about three months now; we have known each other for about six though. We have a great relationship that is fun and spontaneous. Our sex life is great and adventerous.

My problem is that I don't seem to have orgasms often. The few other men that I have been with I had the same outcome. And it doesn't seem to be a matter of that it is lousy sex. It is great, great sex. I am certainly having a fabulous time and couldn't really say that there is anything wrong with what he is doing as it always feels really good, I just never seem to hit that 'peak'. Is this normal? I have not told him about this as I feel it would hurt his feelings (and ego).

I feel that this is something that is wrong I my part. I don't know if I have this problem because I've never really 'done it' to myself so perhaps I don't know exactly what I like? I am not sure here. Also, I have orgasmed, but I feel like it should be happening more often. It seems to be that it just feels really, really good and just stays like that. Is there something that I can do to change this?

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A reader, anonymous, writes (9 December 2007):

Sex isn't always great for women, you tend to get orgasms in foreplay etc. not it intercourse itself.

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