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female
age
36-40,
anonymous
writes:Dear cupid,Hello Everyone!!Well here's my problem:Im 17 years old and my boy friend is 20 years oldWe have been together for abit over a year nowWe have been best friends for a long time for almost 2 and a half years. but when we were friends he would call me all the time and want to pay attention to me and be real love and he would reply to every text message couldnt go a day with out me and it was like that in our relationship to but we broke up for a month i heard nothing and he contacts me out the blue and wants to be with me well a few months later we broke up again for two weeks and then contacted me again and we got back together and even though it hurt i gave him another chance and ever since then he doesn't seem to be interested in me as much he tells me he loves me all the time and do to i moved 3 hrs away we dont see each other alot. i saw him july 2nd and 3rd and every time he sees me for days he's like he was when we were first together and just everything but a week will go by and he slips back into being kinda selfish and not so loving or caring and it hurts i try to talk to him but i dont think he seems to understand what i mean, its not like we can sit down and talk every thing over because the long distance but i feel as i am losing him to it and even though he says i love you to much to let that happen i wonder why he has changed and doesn't call as much or doesn't reply to all my texts specially the sweet ones i send telling him how much he means to me and i love him so much. im very confused and want to get our relationship back together i know we have been through a lot but it hurts i see a lot of happy couples and i want to be happy like we were but he says its because i am so far a away and he misses me so much but really i need advise in what to do to make things a bit better on our relationship and what do i say to him to help him understand i want attention and i need him to be here for me i am pregnant with he's baby and i just feel real low he does work a lot but i need him too!!!how do i get the caring man i fell in love with back??I love him and know he loves me but he has always had a bit of a problem showing his feelings! how do i ask for a relationship talk and be strong to leave if it doesnt get better???
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reader, lovebabe4201  +, writes (8 August 2007):
I think you need to think very carefully about this as its not just you that you need to think about, you also need to think about your baby. It sounds like he enjoys the chase and once he is in a relationship he gets bored very easily. You sound a lot more mature than him and it is very important to feel loved. Write him a letter, tell him how you feel. Dont hold anything back be very honest. Its always hard to leave a relation ship, trust me i know how much it hurts but what is your mind telling you to do...go with that. i did and now i am very happy. hope it all works out for you xxx
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