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writes:Am i wrong to feel betrayed by a freind who has made a move on my ex boyfreind? i was with him a long time before we broke up 2 months ago and a good freind of mine and his has started telling him she luvs him, misses him all the time, and keeps going to see him. shes a bit of a known whore. i feel let down by her that shes trying to get with my ex so soon after we broke up, i feel like an ex of your freind is out of bounds, am i wrong to be mad at her? i think she thinks its wrong herself cos shes been avoiding me since he told me what shes been doing
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 August 2007): Im not trying to forget him, im still good freinds with him, we had a very amiable breakup. neither of us wanted to stop being freinds. and im just assuming she thinks shes wrong, because of how shes been avoiding me. i am planning on keeping out of her way becaus im too annoyed with her to deal with a confrontation. im worried if he and her make a go of something that shell break his heart becaus she wants every man she meets, uses them for a while for sex and whatever else she can get, and then moves on. he might accept her advances becaus hes lonely without me. i dotn want him to get hurt becaus i still care about him a lot. i just feel as my so called freind she should have more respect for what me and him had by not trying it on with him now. i cant stop being mad at her for this
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reader, Uncle Trev  +, writes (7 August 2007):
It doesn't sound like your friend was the reason that you broke up with your ex. The only problem is that the situation could be made a little aukward by this. When you go out with her as a friend could you just explain to her that you are trying to get this guy out of your life and do not need to be constantly reminded of him by her. If she is a decent friend then she would not mind doing this for you at all.You say that she thinks she is wrong - have you not thought that she is trying to avoid making a scene of the present situation.At the end of the day you two had separated and so your friend thought the coast be clear for her to make her move. At least she didn't move in on you two when you were getting it together, she has waited and now it seems that you are the one having to deal with the present outcome.
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 August 2007): i think you are definately not in the wrong. if i were you i'd just keep away from her. if she does stuff like this all the time then im sure she'll get whats coming. i know this isnt a lot of help but trust me if your patiant and keep to yourself for a bit, eveerything will fall into place and start working in your favour. good luck and b sure to keep me updated plz =D . XxXxX
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