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*opey2977
writes:when i am having sex, i can give my guy oral sex and he gets erect, but when he penetrates me after a minute he goes soft, my question is why does this happen?
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reader, marriedchick  +, writes (13 October 2009):
 i have that same problem my newlywed husband gets rock hard when i am giving him oral sex the whole time until he cums but when we are having regular sex he goes soft and has to pull out and jerk off and sometimes doesnt even cum at all. it may be because it feels better but also it can be a mind thing, try looking at porn with him while having sex
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reader, leonard j.Douglas  +, writes (8 August 2007):
To Answer your question can best be done by your understanding the male penis and how it works and why often it don't work during vaginal-intercourse. All us men start out as early Masturbators. By this I mean that we start out masturbating at an early age. And often quickly so as not to get caught by Mommy or Daddy. We then bring ourselves to quick orgasms. Well,It;s this early Penile-Trainning,quick ejaculations,that we carry over into our later M/F sexual relationships. and of course the penis is going to do what its been trained to do,Ejaculate,come as soon as possible. And if your Bf wants to learn how to last longer in your vagina,"I'M SURE HE DOES". He can only do that by Reconditioning his mind and his penis by controlled Masturbation. Better yet, You would be able to do a much better job on his penis reconditioning, as you will see. Here's what he, or you, need to do. So he can learn to Maintain his erection. And it's really quite simple to do. So here goes the RX.
* He will need to get comfortable in bed.
* Lubricate his Penis, so that his or your hand-stroking won't irate the penile-shaft while he, or you, brings his penis to an erection.
* When he has an erection, He will then try to bring himself as close to an ejaculation, as many times, as possible. Then try to stop just short of that ejaculation,his coming.
* When he feels like he's about to come,He,or you, will then decrease the hand pressure and stroking, until he regains once more control over his ejaculation.
* At first,He, or you, may not be able to bring the penis to very many near ejaculations, But with ongoing penile- stimulation he can relearn how to last much longer in your vagina.
* You don't have intercourse with your Gf for about a month while he is relearning to control you early ejaculation. but you can sexually please her in any other way.
* The above method is the only way to deal with his erection problem. So try it, and it's also a great way to learn communication between the two of you.
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reader, dopey2977 +, writes (7 August 2007):
dopey2977 is verified as being by the original poster of the question he goes soft before he even comes close to cumming. he starts to go soft almost as soon as he enters me.
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reader, eddie  +, writes (7 August 2007):
 I think it's quite common for a guy to last longer during oral. Do yo mean during intercourse he cums and then goes soft or he goes soft before he cums?
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 August 2007): I have been debating the same question. Its an intimate act but they cannot see your face. Perhaps it feels tighter?
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