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*razykid001
writes:Hey, I just wanted to know what you guys think I should do...I'm one of those guys who isn't very good looking, and isn't good with the girls, you know the type. The thing is I got to be really good friends with this girl, she's kind and caring and beautiful too, and I just started falling in love with her. For once in my life it felt like I stood a chance with somebody, then I found she's gay. I mean its not that I have a problem with that, I have a lot of gay friends, its just such a let down when I thought I was getting somewhere. I'm the only one of my friends not to be in love and going out with someone, and I feel like I must be doing something wrong. Does anybody have any advice about what I should do? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 August 2007): I don't know where you live but now a days , depending on your age, they have speed dating places where you can go meet people ... I haven't personally been to one of these events but I'm sure you could get some feedback there. You should try being more social everywhere you go... just strike up a conversation with someone randomly... you never know where it may lead. Life is about taking chances. There is this guy I work with and he is 34; he is still a virgin and its not a choice he makes but its his lack of social skills. I don't know your situation and I don't know your age but hopefully you can just put yourself out there more... I wouldn't recommend the Internet though; most sane women stay away from that form of dating.
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 August 2007): If you like this girl so much , genuinely for her personality, then there's no reason why you can't be friends. It will obv be hard to move on from how you feel about her but fortunately it will be easier than for some as you never had a relationship with her beyond friendship.
And don't worry about finding someone else, they will appear when you least expect it and somehow it will click, in the meantime just enjoy ur friends and have fun without being preoccupied with having a relationship unless you find someone special who feels the same.
Hope this helps xx
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