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writes:My boyfriend is always going away with his mates for weekends every three or four weeks. Sometimes some of his mates take their girlfriends. When should I start putting my foot down and how do I talk to him about this and explain my feelings wihout it turning into an argument? Reply to this Question
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reader, Basschick  +, writes (7 August 2007):
 I wouldn't put my foot down until I asked him outright why he doesn't take me, and they take their girlfriends? Secondly, how do you know they come along? There could be more to this story than you realize.
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 August 2007): No its not good at all especially if the other guys are taking their girlfriends. If you confront him and he throws a tantrum, is he really worth your love and commitment?....I think not.
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reader, Skeez +, writes (7 August 2007):
 I think you should kick him..sorry but he doesnt sound like hes giving you a lot of respect. If his friends are taking there girlfriends, he should invite you too. Talk to him about it and if he wants to cause an arguement give him the boot.Goodluck
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reader, Helen1986 +, writes (7 August 2007):
 I think you should put your foot down. How would he like it if you went away all the time with your girl mates and they took their blokes but he wasnt invited.
He wouldnt like it. Try and make him see your point of view. Ask him if you could come along or ask him to come away with you on occasions on your own.
I think he needs to respect you more if he doesnt understand. give him the boot because he will never respect you.
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reader, hlskitten +, writes (7 August 2007):
 Hi
Im not too sure i would be happy with my guy going off on boys weekends every month, now n then maybe, but once a month? Its normal for people to grow out of that when they are in a relationship.
Thats just my opinion though.
If you think you should go too, i would say just that. Why wouldnt he want to take you if his mates girls are going too?
C xxxxxx
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