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writes:I have been dating this guy for a whole year, within that year we went through some rough times where he cheated a couple of times and then he stopped and silly me I remained in the relationship because all along I thought I was the problem because I wouldn't give it up. So to fix this for the first time at 28 I gave it up, I had sex with him , lost my virginity to him and now he not talking to me at all. I feel like dying can anyone help???
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 August 2007): i am so so so sorry to hear that. it's not your fault it happened that way.many people do fall in love with someone who doesn't love them. Sometimes it's hard to tell if someone really Loves you or not.Also when sometimes when some people are in Love, they can see no wrong in the person they Love. That's life you know, people make up and break up.It has already happened. it's cruel but with time you will be alright. he is definately not worth dying for.use this experience in the future so it will be worthwhile. Love you sweetie. *HUGS*
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reader, Sandman  +, writes (9 August 2007):
 Wow.Your indicator to needing to leave him alone a long time ago was him cheating on you. I'm not attacking you - but the theory that some women believe giving us sex will keep a man. This is sooooo not the case. If all that is wanted is sex, then once it's gotten, there's nothing left to do!Well, you made your mistake so now it's time to learn from it. Take your time with your next relationship - REALLY getting to know the guy. You won't be a virgin anymore, but you still have a precious gift to give - LOVE.Hope this helps.
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reader, Basschick  +, writes (7 August 2007):
 Well that just sucks. It is a little puzzling why he'd work for "it" for a year, only to dump you as soon as it happens. Most men who only want that one thing bail out if they don't get it within a few months. But you can't very well talk to him if he's ignoring you. Best if you put it behind you and just move on. Most of us went through this saga at a much younger age, but I know it hurts at any age. Don't beat yourself up too much. You obviously thought he was "the one".
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reader, penta +, writes (7 August 2007):
 I'm so sorry hon. Sounds like the guy is a real jerk, and you're much better off with out him. Hold your head up and walk away.
In the future, anyone who won't wait until you are ready is not worth your time. Don't let him blame his bad deeds on you!
Take care of yourself, and know that there really is the right guy out there for you.
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reader, Natalie-Marie  +, writes (7 August 2007):
 Poor you,but im sorry to say but i think this guy was just using you, and now he is being immature by not speaking to you. I know you must feel bad and that its theend of the world but trust me it will get better.n It will take time asyou lost your virginity to him, Show this man that your not bothered and stick with your girlfriends they will help. Good Luck xXx
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