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*kgirl1990
writes:Do you think he really love me and care?right i am 16 years old. he is the same. i knew him for about 8 months and we wouldve been goin out for like 7 and a half. We been on and off. And he is the first guy i TRULY loved, and he really showed me how to be loved, he was the best and the worst thing. I been treated really bad with all my ex bfs. If not counting the bad times he treated me the best. He is the type of guy that is living a very bad lifestyle. And love is not suppose to be part of his life. Well we been through a lot, people always tried to break us apart. But we been strong. I met a lot of his friends and his family. He told everyone a lot of good things about me and that he going to marry me one day and have kids. He told me a lot of secrets and we talked about getting engaged. And he kept asking for us to get tattoos of our names and always used to ask me when i gonna live with him. we haven't talked for about 3 days because i didn't have my phone. when i finally got in contact with him he started acting different, well i was acting different too, because i realize i didn't miss him. Then he told me that we are through, and everything we have needs to stop. And that he is not going to ever call me and change his number so i cant call. I told him that is very messed up, cuz i lost everything cuz of him, and i even lost my virginity to him. And he promised me no matter what we would be friends. He kept his promise so far but now he telling me that he doesn't want to have any contact with me anymore, he also said he needs to "fall out with him" or something like that. He said well i am still gonna be friends with you, just without any contact. He also said that he doesn't care about me right now and he doesn't love me anymore, that he used to love me though. Well his friends was around. And i think they are the reason for this. Because now that he started hanging with them.And what i mean that he is living a bad lifestyle is that. He does a lot of stupid things. He been in jail a lot of times. And he knows what he is doin is wrong. He wants to change. but his friends always mess with his head.Well my main question is DO yall think he still love me and care or he never did? what do you think the reason for this is? and other thing when he is with his friends and he drinks and he says a lot of stuff he dont realize and regrets. And he did similar before. But the next day he apologized, and he told me if he ever says anythin to hurt me i shouldnt pay attention to that because he dont meant it. But this time he didnt apologize and i feel like he is for real. And do yall think i should try to help him and get him back, or just leave him alone. HELPPPP PLZ
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 August 2007): hes trouble. if he wants to change that bad he should put up more of a fight. just ignore him for now. if he still loves you he'll come back. if he does come back you should make sure you tell him that you wont go back to him unless he leaves his friends because theyre causing trouble for him. if he ends up choosing them over you then just leave him coz hes not worth it. good luck.XxXxX
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