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writes:How do I get passed the feelings I'm having? Everytime this one person gets mentioned (one of my girlfriend's exes, let's say Tim) I feel very low and get vivid imagages of the two of them together. This is due to my girlfriend who shared her past with me but gave far to much detail about this guy, the acts she did to him blow jobs etc... I know what this guy looks like as I've met him a few times. I think because I know what he looks like and the acts she's done to him is making it harder to put it to the back of mind. If she was recalling these acts to me she must be thinking of them. I believe her family liked Tim as they talk about him, which if someone is in the past why? I have no trouble with any of her other exes (mainly because I don't know much about them) which is a good thing. Any help would be great as I love this girl so much.
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reader, lisa kathleen gates +, writes (9 August 2007):
 truth is she probably doesnt even think she is doin it half the time. i would just ignore it and change the conversation, if she starts on about tim again (u know who i mean) if that fails... talk to her i agree with skeez, yes communication is key but so is trust, i think u need to give this some serious thought babe. x x
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reader, Skeez +, writes (7 August 2007):
 Talk to her. Communicate.
Explain to her your very upset with the fct she had to spill all details of her old relationship. She didnt need to do that and you didnt need to hear it.
Maybe she still has feelings for him, even if this sounds very hurtful to you..thats why you need to tlk to her. ask her why she had to mention it.
Communication my dear is your key.
Goodluck
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