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writes:Hi everyone, ive got a problem that i could do with some advice about. My ex broke up with me about a month ago. I was madly inlove with him so i was distraught when it happened. It was all very sudden and his reasons were that he was worried about me going university and that he thought we shouldnt be together anymore. I eventually picked up the pieces and tried to move on but i never stopped thinking about him. We kept in contact but kept it minimal.Anyway a couple of days ago he text me asking me to meet him and i agreed. I knew that it might not be the best thing to do but ive never stopped loving him and i was curious. I met him at a bar, where he was quite drunk. He charmed me, saying very nice things and i was drawn in. He asked to stay the nite with him and i agreed. That nite we slept together. Wen we woke in the morning i asked him if he regretted it and he said no. I aked him if he wanted to be with and he said he needed time to think. Its made all my feelings come flooding back and i cant stop thinking about him. I really want to be with him and i realise this now more than ever. Ive text him quite a few times and he didnt reply, until today. He said that i needed to stop txting him cos he needed sum space and said he had alot of issues as the minute. He also said that maybe he shudnt have slept with me that nite but he cudnt resist me. He said hed text me when he's ready. What do i do now? obviously i kno i should give him some space, but how long should i give him? should i wait for him to contact me? I have decided that i will wait for him, but i cant wait forever. Do u think it is worth waiting? what are my chances of us getting back together? i dont know whether i should just move on. Any advice would be helpful. thanks x
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reader, hlskitten +, writes (7 August 2007):
 Hi
Im sure this question was posted the other day, but yes i think he was drunk, and if he had been sober, he wouldnt of done it. Someone that uses you isnt worth waiting for.
Heres what will happen next, he will txt you again, probably this weekend when hes been on the booze & you will go & jump into bed with him, & this will go on as many times as he can get away with, all the time him telling you he needs time.
I could be wrong but i bet im not.
Hopefully you will be strong & kick this guy to the kerb.He didnt txt back because he doesnt want to be with you & possibly had some guilt for the night he used you.
Sorry if thats not what you wanted to hear.
But im sure many said it last time you asked.
Good luck.
C xxxx
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reader, agony87 +, writes (7 August 2007):
 Hi,
I think he slept with you that night because your his ex, he knows you still love him and he knew you would be 'up for it.' im not being harsh so please dont take that the wrong way but i do think he used you. If hes only got in touch with you once since you slept together to tell you to stop txtin him i really do think you should move on. If he does decide 'hes ready' to start seeing you again i would think really carefully about letting yourself get involved with someone who plays with your feelings in the way he is again. I know it will be hard but i do really hope you try and take my advise.
good luck x
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