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writes:I fancy my boyfriend ´s good friend. I dont like my boyfriend that much coz he doesnt pay attantion to me as he used to. I want to get closer to his friend but the problem is obvious. Shall i forget about it? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 August 2007): Pretty much what everyone else said.
Step 1: Talk to your boyfriend. If still no attention:
Step 2: End it. Before moving to the friend consider:
a) You may break apart their friendship.
b) He may not treat you any better.
c) He may just talk to your current boyfriend and it might make him extra mad at you and he'll call you slut and whore and all kinds of bad stuff.
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reader, jtaunton5410  +, writes (8 August 2007):
 I think that the first thing that you should do is talk to your boyfriend first and tell him that he doesnt give you very much attention anymore. Maybe he doesnt realize that he is doing that or that you feel that way. So talk to him first. If he has no interest in talking to you about that or showing you attention then abviously you should find someone that will treat you better. But you should know that this could be a big deal with the 2 guys. They will probably fight, your ex will be mad at you as well, they may not even be friends anymore, or the firend may not want to do that to his buddy, so he could turn you down, and then after that they are all mad at you.
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 August 2007): talk to your bf how you feel not about how you feel for hes friend just how you feel he doesnt pay enough attention to you and that it hurts and it makes you want to get it from some where eles well i think you may like hes friend for paying attention to you but if you want to go for hes friend than i cant stop you but i do say that you might ruin a friendship or get shut down and dumped so think about it
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reader, Peterk5699  +, writes (7 August 2007):
 Sorry if this sounds a bit harsh.
Maybe you should give up on your boyfriend and leave him. He obviously doesn't like/love you like he used to. It might be a bad idea to get with his friend though because that could seem like revenge and he [boyfriend] might get mad and do something like lying.
So really it would be best to just walk away and put it behind you. If you can't tell your bf by voice try sending it in a text when at work/uni/college.
Hope this helped.
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