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He said that he couldn't go out, but I think he's making up excuses!

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Question - (7 August 2007) 3 Answers - (Newest, 8 August 2007)
A female United States age 30-35, *oTrineyxo writes:

Yesterday, i texted my crush (he likes me, too, he told me) that i wanted him to come to a movie with my friends and i. well two hours later (yeah ik!!) he finally texted back what time. So i told him then he said i have football. And i know he plays football cause I've been to his games but what the hell it's like august and i keep thinking he's lying to me for no good reason. he could have just said that he couldnt go. And like ik i should try to trust him but i cnat get my mind to work around it. Help!

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (8 August 2007):

He told you he likes you, so why would you think he was lying to you? You said yourself you've been to football with him, and August or not, people do still have their scheduled activities!

Try to have a little more confidence in the fact that he does like you, and relax! If you want to have a good friendship with him, its better not to act all suspicious, as you know!

And next time, let him know about getting together with friends a few days BEFOREHAND, if you can (sometimes things do come up on the spur of the moment) but generally speaking, letting him know in advance gives him the chance to either change any plans he might already have made, OR to say to you "Hey, I can't make it today, but how about tomorrow"? sort of thing.

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A female reader, stina United States +, writes (7 August 2007):

stina agony auntHi there,

He's probably telling you the truth. If he told you that he likes you, then why would he make something up in order to avoid going out with you? If it makes you feel any better, my brother in law goes to rugby practice once a week for several hours. Even though there are no real games over the summer, his team practices ALL year long. I think he's crazy (lol), but perhaps the boy you like is the same.

Take care.

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A female reader, thatgothgirl20 United States +, writes (7 August 2007):

thatgothgirl20 agony auntTell him how you are feeling. Otherwise you're just going to drive yourself crazy thinking about it.

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