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36-40,
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writes: What shall I do?? I was with a girl who had just come out of a realtionship then jumped straight in one with me now she's finished with me, saying she needs time to think. Now she doesn't talk to me, doesn't text, doesn't ring or nothing. I know that I should just leave her too it but we work together and also she may be sorting her head out but what about mine everything is just up in the air... Any suggestions? She's a cool lady it would be shame to mess things up.thank you
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reader, DJ8433 +, writes (7 August 2007):
If you feel like waiting, then wait. If it's been a week I would ring her and ask her if there is a possibility for a you and her. If she's not returned your calls after 7 days(assuming she might possibly have been on holiday) or if she's non-committal, move on. She's done. Then, keep lookin, and have fun. Life's too short to be unhappy.
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reader, boyo9876 +, writes (7 August 2007):
Moral of this story. Never get into relationships with people you work with. This woman sounds like she doesn't know what day of the week it is. She's playing with your head and clearly doesn't care what this is doing to you. She doesn't sound very nice to me. Stay clear of her and find someone who won't mess you about. The old "I need to sort my head out" is a pathetic excuse. Sort what out exactly? People who use this one need to simply get a grip. End of. Dude you deserve better, find yourself a girl who's head is sorted, this one sounds a little CRAZY! :p
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