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female
age
51-59,
anonymous
writes:I love my new partner. But I don't always have an orgasm with him so I fake it so as to please him. I've been doing for a while and find it tired faking it. What can I do? Please advise.
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reader, Stroller +, writes (19 March 2008):
 Quit faking!
It's dishonest for a start!
There's nothing worse for a guy to hear his girl has been faking, so you seemly need to take a little control and change the direction of your lovemaking. Tell him to use his fingers here, slip his tongue in there or just "do what you're doing, baby! take it real slow!"
If you don't tell him what lights you up, how's he to know?
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 March 2008): Hey, you're in my age bracket! Love it. Anyway, just know it is 'okay' not to have an orgasm every time you make love! I mean, sometimes at our age, we are going through hormonal changes that cause you not to 'cum all the way,' so to speak. Talk about it with him and let him know you love and care deeply, and maybe more foreplay would help the issue (as it takes women up to 20 minutes to get excited to that extreme, most times)and his understanding to boot!Good luck, Gena Bullock
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reader, Laura1318  +, writes (19 March 2008):
 You can teach him and show him what to do to make you have a real orgasm.
Life is about learning new things.
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reader, Kiss Dont Miss  +, writes (19 March 2008):
Why don't you tell him the truth? It's absolutely ok if you don't have orgasms always. A lot of women have the same problem. If your guy knows of it, he'll do his best you to have orgasms more often.Wish your great love and mutual understanding!kissdontmiss.com
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