I keep having this strong urge to just cuddle with him... is this considered cheating?
Q. My boyfriend and i have been together for close to 3 years now. We are in love, our relationship is practically flawless and we are still very much attracted to each other. However I find one of our guy friends attractive. One thing for sure is that ...
A. 30 March 2008: Sometimes we cannot help it , those feelings can come
because of the sexual attractions between the opposite sex.
Some people just ooze sex appeal and being near them can bring out those feelings.
It could be the lack of intimacy between... (read in full...)
Is it true my friend wont find peace with God after committing suicide?
Q. Good day to all, A girl I know commited suicide. To be honest I am not so upset about the suicide itself or even her death. She had a really really awful life and alot of bad things happen her entire life-from the day she was born. When I f...
A. 29 March 2008: When a person dies, his soul will either returned to God or the devil snatched it away.
There is a constant war in the spiritual ream between God and the devil.
Those who live for God , their souls will belong to God for
He will not let... (read in full...)
Can someone tell me how to stop feeling the pain of breaking up?
Q. Hi Everyone I have now accepted that Myself and ex fiance will not get back together. However I am tortured with thoughts of my fiance meeting or being intimate with someone else. I know I should try to block these thoughts out, but I'm struggli...
A. 29 March 2008: Time is a great healer.
Go out with your friends and enjoy their company's.
Get back into the sane world.
Go exercise for this can take your mind of the problems.
You will be tired after your exercise and you will sleep
better and wi... (read in full...)
His comments about other women make me feel insecure, and I want to be more confident!
Q. Am a 48 year old, attractive, intelligent woman. I have been seeing this wonderful man for 4 months. Just back from holiday with him. On occasions when we are out, he'll say things like "that barmaid was gorgeous, wish I could take her home" or ...
A. 29 March 2008: Some men have childish mentalities.They never grow up.
They have a single track mind and they do not know their
actions can cause you problems unless you bring it up to his attentions.
They feel it is just a harmless activity becaus... (read in full...)
My boyfriend wont talk to me until I tell him if I will have sex with him or not
Q. Dear Cupid, I have been with my boyfriend for 2 months now and he is younger then me, he said when he turns 18 will i have sex with him, and now he wont talk to me until i answer him with yes or no help! stuck in the middle ...
A. 29 March 2008: Do you want to have sex with him? Yes or No?
Then tell him the answer.
It should not be difficult to answer his question.... (read in full...)
I know it's a sin, but I don't care!!
Q. Hello. Well, i'm young and I am very very horny..haha..I am a virgin so I like to masturbate alot..It is not secret..I don't care..anyhow. Pornagraphy is a sin..I am Christian and have been raised that its a sin..and it even says so in the ...
A. 29 March 2008: God said that we are all sinners !
No man is righteous, for all have sinned.
If those holier than thou's were to judge you ,
they are wrong.
Pot calling the kettle black.... (read in full...)
Married one year and I've never had sex because I lose my erection whenever I attempt intercourse! Where can I get treatment in the Netherlands or anywhwere else?
Q. i am married 1 year before still i dont have sex with my wife. becoase when i try to insert my pene into my wifes virgina. my peney was going down(become strongless) so i am so sad that i cant have a sex with my wife. i thing it was related mental ...
A. 29 March 2008: Go to your GP and he can deal with it.
You can go to this link and read about the natural remedies;-
http://altmedicine.about.com/cs/conditionsetoh/a/erectiledysfunc.htm
... (read in full...)
Shall I go back or get on with my life?
Q. Hi I left my husband 2 years ago and moved into rented accomodation were i still live. He spent a lot of his spare time in the pub. My weekend became very predictable. I have three children who all live with me. He still lives in the matrimonal ho...
A. 29 March 2008: I think you need to stay single for a period of time until you are clear of what you want out of life.
... (read in full...)
Cell phone tracking question...
Q. Does anyone know if there is a way to track a cell phone? (ex. finding out where a person is located at any certain time)I also am hoping someone can answer this... Can my cell phone service provider give me a list of the text messages from her...
A. 29 March 2008: Yes ! It can be done just like the police put a tracer chip
and knows where you are any time of the day.
You can even put a spying chip in his phone to listen to his conversation.
You can contact the company for a list of the text message... (read in full...)
I am obsessed with an older divorced man...
Q. Hello..I am young..a 17 year old girll.I fell for this one man between the age of 40-50 years old in 2005.He is the best guy I have ever seen in my life and I love him to death. Actually, I am overly obsessed with him.I used to go to his church he ...
A. 29 March 2008: In love you can do everything.
When you are love struck , nothing is impossible.
It is not good to be obsessive with another person.
We may love them with all our heart but we should not be obsessive with them
No one knows your heart... (read in full...)
Should I trust him if I commit to a mortgage agreement
Q. My boyfriend and I have been dating seriously for 3 years. We are both in our mid 20s. He is now living in different city because of work. He would like to buy a property so I can move up to his city about 1/2 year later (when my work gets orga...
A. 29 March 2008: Never trust anyone when it comes to money.
Today, everything is fine but you will not know what will happen in the future.
Today's friends can be tomorrow's enemies.
Better to be prudent than to be foolish.
We have heard of lending moni... (read in full...)
I'm scared I will lose my boyfriend because of my small breasts-help!
Q. I'm 17 and I have A cup breasts, and I'm worried my boyfriend thinks my body's ugly. He has said that he doesn't need me to have bigger breasts because he enjoys my legs and butt more. I think he's lying just to make me feel better. I'm scared that ...
A. 29 March 2008: If he tells you the truth , you think he is lying.
If he tells you what you want to hear ,
you would not believe him.
It is impossible to say anything that would please you.
His dumped his ex who is big breasted.
It is not the breas... (read in full...)
I had my flight booked to go and meet my online guy and backed out at the last minute..I feel so akward with him now, what should I do?
Q. Ok. So I've been talking to this one guy on the internet for about 2 years. I have such strong feeling for him. About a week and a half ago,we decided to meet up. I bought my plane ticket,and everything. The morning I woke,to go to the airport,...
A. 29 March 2008: He seems like a very understanding man and you should not feel
that way and put all the blame on yourself.
Don't be too judgmental and forgive yourself.
Time will heal your hurts.
Your relationship will heal as he has accepted this inc... (read in full...)
Why do I lose interest in my men so quickly?
Q. I feel that I am picking smart and attractive men to date, but after a few weeks of dating I always get this feeling all of a sudden that I have no interest in him. He'll do nice things for me and will be a complete gentleman, but I end up ...
A. 29 March 2008: Because they are so predictable and having no surprises.
It becomes boring after sometime.
They don't challenge your senses.... (read in full...)
I was so mean to my ex should I apologise or just let it go?
Q. My ex and I broke up in august and he pretty much hates me. i messed up, i lied to him about something big and continued lying even when he found me out. Obviously he was devastated and furious and i really hurt him. he cut all ties with me and...
A. 29 March 2008: An apology is like a balm for a sore and broken heart.
Never under estimate the power of words.
Just come clean and tell him that you are sorry and whatever
happens , just accept the situation.
He may or may not come back to you but you... (read in full...)
How can I learn to trust my husband?
Q. i have been married for 4 years and i have been together for 7 years i have had bad past relashioships with guys cheating on me and me catching them and my husband now i thnk he is doing the same everytime he goes out the door my mind starts to fly ...
A. 29 March 2008: Why not try to go out as a couple ?
You should share his interest and go out with him whenever possible.
I know of happy couples who do everything together.
Then you will not have trust issues.
The more you do activities together,
... (read in full...)
Does he like me or not?
Q. okie hi im 14 theres this guy i like but i dont no if he likes me back .. he looks at me then looks away .. then he looks seriuos for a moment ... he gives me da puppy face what does dat mean ..? he those kinda guys that thinks he can get a girl .. ...
A. 29 March 2008: Yeah! he is interested in you ...
They get red behind their ears.... (read in full...)
I'm married and afraid in case our families find out my brief fling?
Q. help i've been unfaithful once with a freind and worried our familiy's my find out.i'm married but my husband does'nt work i have 2 jobs and we have three kids.he talks to me ugly and wants to party with his friends? been with him for a long time ...
A. 29 March 2008: Even if he finds out , I don't think he will leave you .
You are his meal ticket.
Some men do not like to work and they want to lead a
bliss full life where the wife takes care of him for everything.
They don't have back bones.
Even i... (read in full...)
I am obsessed with an older divorced man...
Q. Hello..I am young..a 17 year old girll.I fell for this one man between the age of 40-50 years old in 2005.He is the best guy I have ever seen in my life and I love him to death. Actually, I am overly obsessed with him.I used to go to his church he ...
A. 29 March 2008: There is nothing wrong to love him.
You will have to convince him that your love is real .
What you can do now is try to get involved with his kids and
see if you can get along with them and feel what life is about with an instant family. ... (read in full...)
I have broken up with my girlfriend because we were always fighting but I cant bear the thought of her being with anyone else!
Q. Ok so me and my girlfriend broke up cause all we did was fight now because of her im going through alot of changes such as my anger the way i treat people my self centeredness, now just tonight we had a great talk she said she had her guard up wich ...
A. 29 March 2008: Take the hands of friendship that is offered to you .
Take each day as it comes.
Do not expect too much from her and this could make your relationship grow.
This way , you will become more free and you will find that
there will be more s... (read in full...)
He is all smiles whenever I'm around-does that mean I'm special to him?
Q. Do you think that someone who always smiles at me and can't help it, likes me? This person is all smiles when i'm around. ...
A. 29 March 2008: When you like someone ,you will smile at them always.
But liking and having an interest in you are two different things.
You will have to find out which is which?... (read in full...)
My boyfriend is having a child with some one else, what should I do?
Q. My boyfriend and I dated for 10 months and we broke up. After a couple of months, we started seeing each other and reconnecting. Things are so much better now for us however during the break-up period he got someone else pregnant. He says he car...
A. 29 March 2008: Your b/f is tainted goods.
He made someone pregnant and did not owned up to it and that is callous.
This attitude is wrong and what makes you think that he may not do the same to you?
He could have used the same tactics that he used on ... (read in full...)
I need to know everything and hate liars do I have a control issue?
Q. OK, I had been in a long distance relationship with my BF for about more than 3 years. When we first started to date he was still seem his ex-girl and he said that he had no feelings for her; but he never broke up with her; he was not sleeping with ...
A. 29 March 2008: You love him but you love the perfect image of him in your mind.
You are expecting too high an expectations from him and when
you compare with the real him who has plenty of faults ,
you feel terribly disappointed.
No one ... (read in full...)
Our long-distance relationship has been hampered by constant fighting-but we want to get married when he comes back. Will it work for us?
Q. Me and my boyfriend have been together for about 3 years and 5 months now, and in that we have spent more than 2 years in long distance but he is coming back to the US soon now and we have decided to move in together and get married in a couple ...
A. 29 March 2008: Everyone is entitled to their opinions.
Do not force your opinions on others.
Take it or reject it and move on.
Agree to disagree.
Try to stay away from contentious issues if you can .
Find those common grounds where it will build... (read in full...)
I need to know urgentyl whose fluid was running down my leg when we were having sex?
Q. Ok, me and my boyfriend were having sex, and towards the end I started feeling this liquid running down my leg. So I told him to stop and pull out because I thought it might have been cum, but he didn't cum until he pulled out. So I'm kind of ...
A. 29 March 2008: You were squirting or female equivalent of ejaculations.
A man cannot piss when he has a hard on and inside of you.
Read more here;-
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Female_ejaculation... (read in full...)
He still chats about his ex but I want to know how do I tell him that I love him?
Q. ive been chatting to a guy 4 just ova 2mnts, i think i like him. how do i tell him this?? he still talks about his ex alot... ...
A. 29 March 2008: Tell him straight into his face when you two are alone.
Don't try to hint. He will not get the message.
Talking about his ex may mean that he may not have got over his ex yet.... (read in full...)
I'm dying and having religous/spiritual questions, any insight?
Q. Hello everyone, I am dying. At times I feel have made my peace and am ready to face it whenever it does eventually come, other times I feel sort of scared. You see I was brought up Catholic as a child but as an adult I lived my life being an at...
A. 29 March 2008: I am sorry to hear of the bad news.
As a Christian , your salvation is assured if you confessed
all your sins before God, accept Jesus into your heart and
believed that He is the son of God.
Your name will be in the Book of Life.
... (read in full...)
Can mother-in-law legally force my husband and I to allow her access to our kids?
Q. Okay,My husband and I do not allow for his mother(childrens grandmother) to see our children,for many reasons She has talked very Bad about my 2 kids a 4yr old and 18 month old(thats only 1 of many reasons)just to make it clear NO type of abuse is ...
A. 29 March 2008: She cannot do that but it is very sad that it has to happened
like that.Blood is thicker than water.
I hope someday , your husband will make peace with his mother,
for grandparents can play a role in your child's development.... (read in full...)
I broke up with my boyfriend six months ago, I am not comfortable with our mutual friend updating him on what I'm doing now. Should I dump her too?
Q. Hoping people can help here. I broke up with a guy about six months ago. I liked him but felt that the feeling was not mutual so I was wasting my time. He and I have a mutual friend and he moniters my comings and goings through her which I find odd. ...
A. 29 March 2008: If you value your friend, then you need just tell her not to update him about you.
Whether she listens or not , it is her choice.
Even if you do not talk to her , she can still go against your wishes and update him about you.
Do not share to... (read in full...)
My mom sleeps all the time so I have to watch the 2yr old! How can I stop this misery?
Q. i hate my mom.. because she sleeps all day. so i have my two year old sister. my mom has a boyfriend now.. i understand that she works and her job is hard on her.. but its not fair for me to have to watch a two year old who doesnt listen, hits, ...
A. 29 March 2008: Your mom has lost her bearings.Cannot really blame her because
of her b/f.I hope she wakes up quickly that what she is doing is wrong.
I hope she will realize that she has placed a lot of
responsibilities on your young shoulders.
If y... (read in full...)
Is there a way to make my nipples more perky? Is that wierd to ask?
Q. this is a question about my nipples ..... They aren't very perky..... if you know what I mean.... is that normal ? is there a way to change that? it's a weird question I know but I need help..... so if you know anything please let me know .......
A. 28 March 2008: You can try those breast pumps to exercise your nipples.... (read in full...)
My husband hit me--should we separate?
Q. My husband told me tonight that we should separate. He says if I went away for a year and lost some weight and sorted my pms, out he would reconsider. I am very hurt. Last week he hit me over the head with a glass and caused injury. He says it ...
A. 28 March 2008: Your husband has an uncontrollable rage when he is pushed
to the limits.
Some men have a lower tolerance level and
can explode when pushed beyond that level.
You need to recognize those tolerance levels.
He is wrong to hit yo... (read in full...)
My mom sleeps all the time so I have to watch the 2yr old! How can I stop this misery?
Q. i hate my mom.. because she sleeps all day. so i have my two year old sister. my mom has a boyfriend now.. i understand that she works and her job is hard on her.. but its not fair for me to have to watch a two year old who doesnt listen, hits, ...
A. 28 March 2008: You are like the home alone kid.
If you really cannot stand any more, you should call 911
or the police.They will contact the social worker to look into your case.... (read in full...)
Is it fair I give up ballroom dancing because my boyfriend doesn't want me dancing with other guys?
Q. My boyfriend has a problem with me dancing with another man. Do you think it's fair? Background info: I used to take ballroom dancing with my gay friend. After I dated my boyfriend, I have stopped. He doesn't like me dancing with another men beca...
A. 28 March 2008: It is not fair on his part but he has compromised that he
will be your partner.That should be fair and square.
Going to drinks and the bar alone is not advisable unless
you want to break up with him.
There is a price to pay, for ... (read in full...)
Why keep begging me to come see you if we're not going to have sex?
Q. My Ex-girlfriend wants me to drive 3 hours and come spend the weekend with her so we can "hang out and have fun". I just got off the phone with her and she says she doesn't want to have sex and that I can have her bed. The whole not have sex thing ...
A. 27 March 2008: After reading your follow ups, I agree with you.
She is not worth your time.... (read in full...)
How do you break up with someone that you like but realized you don't love?
Q. How do you break up with someone that you like but realized you don't love? I kinda thought I loved him but I am getting really bored with this relationship and don't want him to get too attached to me if he isn't already if I don't think we w...
A. 27 March 2008: Tell him that you both are not compatible and he deserved someone better.
Or
Tell him you are not right for each other.
Keep it simple.
Or
You can browse this site for more tips;-
http://www.romanceclass.com/... (read in full...)
When I use the toilet, I get blood. What could be the reason?
Q. I am 27 yr old. When ever I use toilet I get blood. What is the reasons for it?...
A. 27 March 2008: You can Google your question.
http://www.medicinenet.com/script/main/forum.asp?articlekey=24701
It could be these
* Anal Fissure
* Colon Cancer
* Colon Polyps
* Crohn's Disease
* Diverticulitis (Diverticulosis)
... (read in full...)
Big events or being really nervous gives me diarrhoea...any tips?
Q. Whenever I get really nervous or have some important event etc I get Diarrohea. This can be extremely embarrassing and inconvenient as you can imagine if I am out attending an interview, meeting, important function etc. Any help will be appreciated ...
A. 27 March 2008: You can try fasting during the day for a few days before the big events.
Fasting can rid your body of toxins and clean your insides.
... (read in full...)
How do you know when you're going to be with someone forever????
Q. How do you know when your going to be with someone forever????...
A. 27 March 2008: When you love that someone and he loves you back the same .
Then you will live in your dreams of eternity .
Happy and sweet dreams!... (read in full...)
Am I irrational for feeling second best to my boyfriend's ex?
Q. I seem to have developed an irrational second best feeling to my boyfriends ex. They were together several years and had a little boy together, he obviously sees her for contact with his little boy/ to pay maintanance, but I often find him doing ...
A. 27 March 2008: He comes with a baggage and if you get tired of carrying for
him ,you only need to let go and find a clean one with no
strings attached.
You will always be a 2nd class person.
Your glass can never be full but only half full.... (read in full...)
I love to flirt on chat rooms, and send naughty pictures, but its all harmless, my husband doesn't agree, should I dump him?
Q. Could anyone tell me on whether chatrooms are addictive? Am i being fair to carry on in these if my husband has caught me sending photos of my bits to lads? Its simply nothing but harmless flirting and fun,so I enjoy sex talk. Not only that but when ...
A. 27 March 2008: You said it is harmless but the first casualty of your
online tryst is your husband!!!
Losing your husband is harmless!!!
Is that rational thinking?
You are willing to trade in your husband so that you can
continue with your harml... (read in full...)
When I use the toilet, I get blood. What could be the reason?
Q. I am 27 yr old. When ever I use toilet I get blood. What is the reasons for it?...
A. 27 March 2008: It could be piles but you should go see a doctor for a check up.... (read in full...)
Why keep begging me to come see you if we're not going to have sex?
Q. My Ex-girlfriend wants me to drive 3 hours and come spend the weekend with her so we can "hang out and have fun". I just got off the phone with her and she says she doesn't want to have sex and that I can have her bed. The whole not have sex thing ...
A. 27 March 2008: In your relationship , is it just sex that matters???
She told you that she will not have sex with you to see if
you still love her for what she is or you just want sex only from this relationship.
If you go and see her and have fun , sex m... (read in full...)
My mom sleeps all the time so I have to watch the 2yr old! How can I stop this misery?
Q. i hate my mom.. because she sleeps all day. so i have my two year old sister. my mom has a boyfriend now.. i understand that she works and her job is hard on her.. but its not fair for me to have to watch a two year old who doesnt listen, hits, ...
A. 27 March 2008: I am very sorry your mom abdicated her responsibility of your sister to you.
It is very sad when she makes you fully responsible for your sister.
You need to find a suitable time to talk with your mom about it.
Tell her that you need help l... (read in full...)
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