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female
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36-40,
anonymous
writes:It's slowly becoming apparent that the more into someone you are, the less likely they are to be into you. Can someone please explain? Reply to this Question
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reader, Laura1318  +, writes (20 March 2008):
 When you give, someone has to take.
When he is taking , he cannot give.
Thats why , when you are into him , you tend to give off yourself a lot,
but since he is receiving your attentions, he tends to bask in
it without giving it back to you or not giving back enough,
vice versa.
It is akin to dancing..you move forward, he has to move backwards.
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male
reader, anonymous, writes (20 March 2008): Just think about how you have felt towards the guys you've known who seemed more into you than you were into them.
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 March 2008): I've read that in a book, can't remember which book though.
One theory is that it has to do with animal instinct, or mating; playing hard to get. Wouldn't want anyone who fit this behavior.
Another theory is that it is coincident, that we all go through cycles, rarely both reaching the same highs and low together, which causes friction in a relationship and can cause us to go seperate ways. I beleive this one, but have no idea how to communicate with each other to prevent it.
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