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writes:my boyfriend and i have been togther for 6 months now. he says he loves me and i don't do anything wrong, but he gets easily frustrated and is a bit controling. if i want to have a beer he gets irritated saying i'm not with him so why do i need a drink. he says i do nothing wrong and that i don't make him mad, but why does he get so frustrated and yell at me? Reply to this Question
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reader, Laura1318  +, writes (19 March 2008):
 He has taken you for granted . Ask him to cut that crap .
Be assertive and tell him you don't deserve such treatments from him.
Set your limits and boundaries.
If he love you , he will say sorry and will not do it again.
Otherwise , his love for you is just mere words without any actions.
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 March 2008): Sorry, but why are you with him???? I dont think you two are suited at all. He definately has a problem with his anger management so why are you putting up with it. If i want a beer, i just go right ahead and get one, no messing. Please dont take this crap, i did when i was younger and you waste a lot of your lovely young life on a waste of space. Get out now while you still have your brain intact.
take care
xx
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 March 2008): Hmm well it sounds to me like he might have a bit of an anger problem.. He shouldn't be treating you like this at all, so next time you gotta tell him this. If he begins to get mad or shout, say to him, ''Look, why are you always shouting at me if you love me?''. And to be honest, even if he's not ALWAYS, saying that will probably hit home harder. Don't put up with this honey, never ever settle for second best. Especially if he ever uses violence okay, good luck :]
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