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I want him to chase me

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Question - (19 March 2008) 4 Answers - (Newest, 20 March 2008)
A female United States age 36-40, *ceanic815 writes:

"Men want to chase not be chased" So how do I get the acquaintance from class to chase me? What do you do in order to increase a guys interest? He is sweet, quiet, and thoughtful man in one of my classes and I feel strongly attracted to him but I dont want to scare him off. Please tell me all that you know about attracting a specific man that youre interested in.

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A female reader, Laura1318 Malaysia +, writes (20 March 2008):

Laura1318 agony auntBe highly visual to him and get inside his world.

Be involved with what he is doing , his activities or his hobbies.

Try talking to him more often.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (20 March 2008):

Depends on the man, whether they want to be chased ot not, and it depends on what level you perform your chase.

A quite man will appreciate a mature chase. Chase here means you take the first step, like call him, talk to him and invite him for coffee, your treat.

A wild man who is chased will probably just strip your clothes off and have you for supper, whether or not that was your intention.

I'm a quite man, and I prefer a woman acknowledgeing she likes me enough to say so.

A non-quite man doesn't care, if he wants it, whether sex or the prize, will do the chasing.

To go into detail of the different types of personalities is the same for women: impossible.

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A male reader, Jamer70 United Kingdom +, writes (20 March 2008):

Jamer70 agony auntDont play games, as only some men like the chase, while others hate it.

Just be forward and ask him out

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A male reader, agtorange United States +, writes (20 March 2008):

agtorange agony auntI've never wanted to "chase" after a girl, I'd be much happier if she came to me.

But ust give him hints, and he will follow.

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