I really regret what I did to him, how can I make it right?
Q. Dear Cupid, I have met this guy and we have been together for about a year, and through half the year I sexually cheated on him with my ex and lied. I'm not in love with my ex but i am defintely in love with my guy right now. I was stupid and r...
A. 31 May 2008: You reaped what you sowed.
Now that you know what it is like to cheat and be cheated upon,
then you can start from this point and work at your relationship.
Everything is now fair and equal.
Begin a new journey together and leave the p... (read in full...)
Will she ever go away?
Q. This might be a common thing but I have been with my boyfriend for 3 months and we are very happy except for one thing - there is this female friend of his who in her words is in love with him. She rings him all the time and if he doesn't pick up ...
A. 17 April 2008: A man have a different sense of conduct from a woman .
Even if he has no interest in her, he will treat her in a gentlemanly way.
He does not let emotions cloud his thinking.
She is just a friend even though he knows that she is interested i... (read in full...)
Does my holier than thou boyfriend just want me for sex?
Q. Everyone keeps telling me my bf is not good for me but I find it hard to believe, or maybe its just I dont want to believe it. I think im in denial. Hes italian and stereotypically they are supposed ot be big family people which i think is a goo...
A. 17 April 2008: Now that he has decided to dumped you ,
it makes your job easier to leave without any regrets.
There are black sheep's in every religion.
Sorry you have got to go through all these.... (read in full...)
Should I find another girl who will be better for me?
Q. i just reacently broken up with my girlfriend... we've been dating about 6 months and thing were for the most part pretty good. we had alot of fights up till the end but before we had alot of fun, which is all im looking for. i broke up because i ...
A. 17 April 2008: Single life and partnership life is different.
If you are in a partnership, you will have to respect and compromise with your partner.
If you can find the right partner, who can agree everything with you , then you are a very lucky guy.
If... (read in full...)
Oral sex lies? I have one I've kept from my boyfriend.
Q. Ok so I recently got in engaged to my boyfriend. But i am keeping ONE lie from him, which is that i have never given oral sex before, I have given it to one guy, but i told my soon to be husband that he is the first guy to get oral sex from me. ...
A. 17 April 2008: What good would it do to tell him that?
Would he compliment you and say you are a smart girl?
What would you expect his reactions to be?
More negative than positive.
Does he gain anything?
Do you have to show all your skeletons in y... (read in full...)
How am I going to be happy again?
Q. I broke up with my boyfriend of 4 years a little over 6 weeks ago because we had been drifting apart and I had communicated to him what was happening. In the last six months of our relationship I told him that I was unhappy and I had been hearing ...
A. 16 April 2008: When a door closes , another will open for you.
It is not the end of the world.
Be an optimist and think more positive.
Look for the silver linings in the dark clouds.
When you reached bottom, there is no more way down
and the only w... (read in full...)
Will she ever go away?
Q. This might be a common thing but I have been with my boyfriend for 3 months and we are very happy except for one thing - there is this female friend of his who in her words is in love with him. She rings him all the time and if he doesn't pick up ...
A. 16 April 2008: You can try to convince your b/f but if it does work ,
you will have to tolerate his nonsense for the time being.
You cannot force the issue on him because you will not get
the satisfaction and you may be at the receiving end of his ang... (read in full...)
How do I deal with a crush on my flirting boss?
Q. hi my boss has always been flirting with me now i've developed strong feelings for him. what should i do?...
A. 16 April 2008: Is your boss married or single?
If he is single , then there is nothing wrong to go for it if you have feelings for him.
If it does not work out, you will have to change jobs.
That is the downside.... (read in full...)
Feeling so helpless because he broke up with me over nothing!
Q. My boyfriend of 4 months just broke up with me. I’m 26 and he’s 24. The reason we broke up was because he thought I was cheating on him with a coworker (technically my boss, but I do not report directly to him). I travel a lot for business and he ...
A. 16 April 2008: He is insecure and the jealous type.
Were your phone calls and text purely related to your work
only or were there some other personal messages?
If it is purely work related, then he has no standings , but
if there were some element of... (read in full...)
Idont want to end this relationship, please help me save it
Q. please help! ive been with my guy for 8 months tomorrow, and he was like anyone is at first in a relationship - caring, loving, sweet, generous etc. etc. but now hes changed quite a bit, he does have a full-time job, but he was working over time ...
A. 16 April 2008: You can walk that extra mile or bend as far back to breaking point for him as you can.
But if his love for you has died, it is very difficult to revive this relationship.
You need to accept reality .If you have reached that stage,
you n... (read in full...)
It haunts me a lot, the idea that my girlfriend has slept with other men...
Q. I still have a problem accepting the fact that my girlfriend has slept with other men. Three others to be exact. Now, I do not judge her for it. It does not change the fact that I love her. It just hurts sometimes, like if I see a picture of one ...
A. 16 April 2008: If you feel that way about her, then she is not the right one for you.
Either you accept her as God has accepted her or you find a virgin bride.... (read in full...)
He was not quite supportive when I told him I cannot climax without a vibrator! Shouldn't he be happy and excited to meet my needs??
Q. I have a problem with my boyfriend of 9 months. Everything in our relationship is great except for the sex. I do enjoy having sex with him very very much, but I can’t orgasm without a vibrator on my clitoris. I don’t know why and I wish it wasn’t ...
A. 16 April 2008: Only you can answer that question.
Try it with and without the vibrator and see which is more enjoyable.
It is your body and only you can find out which you prefer.
Before he did not like it but after he saw your hurt, he did it for you ... (read in full...)
We love each other but...he is married and with 2 kids I'm married too but don't have kids
Q. well i m a 19 year old girl who met a guy around 5 months bck he is married and with 2 kids i m married too but dont have kids. we love each other like crazy cant live without talking to each other even for a day. he is the manager of a different ...
A. 16 April 2008: FATAL ATTRACTIONS!
You may think that you both cannot live without each other.
Love is blind.
Most married man will not leave their wife or their children.
In your country and if you are a Muslim,
it can land you in big trouble to car... (read in full...)
It's been 2 years since this happened, he said he realised the importance of our family, but I still have trust issues!
Q. i am a 19 year old with a 2 year old baby i have been with my boyfriend since i was in 10th grade i got pregnant in 2005 and well i caught by boyfriend talking to some girl he did not tell me but i noticed that he kept his cell phone with him all ...
A. 16 April 2008: He is still young and has got a lot to learn about married life.
You go through life with a lot of trials and errors.
The important thing is you learn from your mistakes.
We all make mistakes and nobody is perfect.
Give him time and he wi... (read in full...)
Shall I stay or shall I move on
Q. Need some advice here, me and my girlfriend(ex) broke up just last week. I am her first serious boyfriend I never expected that it will end up like this. we've been together for 1 and a half year and we never had a fight. I was really shocked and i ...
A. 16 April 2008: If you really love her and want her to be happy ,
you need to respect her decisions even if it goes against your interest.
This is called Agape love or unconditional love and not expecting anything in returns.
The more you cling onto her,... (read in full...)
Has she found someone else or has she has feelings for me but feels uncertain in some way that it can ruin our friendship?
Q. Hello guys and gals well yesterday me and my best friend got into an argument you see ppl kept on telling me that she liked me(and knowing her she would act stuborn if she did or not) well things got outta hand. we argued to a point she said some ...
A. 16 April 2008: I don't think she has found somebody in that short time.
If you like her, you need to woo her and be the initiator.
You cannot be laid back and expect her to come to you.
You need to go to her,even if you feel she is throwing obstacles in yo... (read in full...)
Urgent! Pimples and blackheads advice needed!
Q. i need help!first i want to thank you for the help i already recieved!!!! how do i get rid of pimpels and black heads in my face???please its really depreasing so please help me...URGENT...
A. 16 April 2008: Keep away from oily and fried foods.
Eat plenty of fresh fruits and veges.
You need to experiment and find the right facial cleanser for your face.
Sometimes the cheap ones are more effective or as effective as those expensive ones.
Some ... (read in full...)
We are both married to other people but feel so strongly about each other
Q. Dear Cupid I have recently been contacted by a male friend who I haven't seen for many years, through an Internet Friends website. I only found out a couple of months ago from my Mother that he had very strong feelings for me all those years ag...
A. 16 April 2008: Give it sometime to make sure that your mutual feelings are
genuine and lasting and not just some mutual physical or sexual attractions.
If it lasts, then you should consult your respective partners to end your marriage.
It is not fair ... (read in full...)
I can understand that he's not attracted to me/interested in me, but at the very least I'd have thought we were friends?
Q. I truly need advice. I am at my wits end. I have lived with flatmates for 8 months, and resolved to move out, as I have fallen for one of the guys. In the beginning I thought it was reciprocal but it wasn't. And yet, he still confuses me. He'll ...
A. 16 April 2008: If he was only a friend, there won't be such a scene.
He would just bade you farewell.
He likes you but could be shy to tell you his feelings in your face.
He is pouting and cannot stop you from leaving.
Hence this childish behaviour... (read in full...)
Why do men have such problems with my past sex life?
Q. Why do men i date find my one night stands in the past distasteful?...
A. 16 April 2008: Men have double standards !! Period!... (read in full...)
My husband keeps asking me why my body doesn't look like the women in porn!
Q. My husband keeps asking me why my body doesnt look like the women in porn...I tried explaining to him that after a few kids things change...Im not at all overweight but womens bodies do change in ways that cant be helped after babies like stretch ...
A. 16 April 2008: I truly agree with you.
Let him dream of those fantasy porn girls for all he wants.
Find some one who loves you for what you are.
Even if you live alone, you will find much happiness.... (read in full...)
In love with my closest friend, standing by her or leaving her side are both hurtful, so how to cope?
Q. alright well my sad story/question goes a little somthign like this. im 18(male) and have been in love with my closest firend(female) for 4 years now(she knows)it's also how long i've known her roughly, so i know it's not a crush, i thought my ...
A. 16 April 2008: It is better to leave and die once than to remain and die many times..
If you want her friendship , then you must kill the love for her and remain only friends.
It will be better to find someone who will love you lock , stock and barrel.... (read in full...)
I feel so angry with my parents and so many relatives and so-called friends
Q. I feel so angry with my parents and so many relatives and so-called friends. My parents decided to hold a family party which was an absolute disaster. My dad who initially agreed to this party believing that we wouldn't go ahead with it, then ...
A. 16 April 2008: What can you do about such apathy from people?
Leave them be and now you know who are your true friends.
To those who do not RSVP, just leave them out.... (read in full...)
Why are men like this or is this guy only like that?
Q. He´s been away for a month and a half. And although he said he was gonna be in touch, It really took me by surprise that he send me a note today saying "How are things down there?" I mean after all this time he just said that. I hoped for him to t...
A. 16 April 2008: Some guys are not good at communications.
They are only good at one liners.
Anything more than that is gold.
You will have to probe and dig into him before he can offer you more informations.
Not all guys are like him.
... (read in full...)
Does my holier than thou boyfriend just want me for sex?
Q. Everyone keeps telling me my bf is not good for me but I find it hard to believe, or maybe its just I dont want to believe it. I think im in denial. Hes italian and stereotypically they are supposed ot be big family people which i think is a goo...
A. 16 April 2008: He is just a religious hypocrite.
He pretends only in front of his parents but his true self
is what you see him when you are alone.
He has no scruples and only have outward manifestations of his religion.
He is without principles and ... (read in full...)
I just want to be his friend, I don't want a relationship with him.
Q. Hi to all. I've been talking through the phone with this old college male friend lately. We live thousands of miles away. We are currently both single. I'm happy talking to him because he always speaks highly of me and he is a good friend. It's l...
A. 16 April 2008: Just tell him straight that you like him as a friend and you
are not ready for any relationships. He will get the drift.
Excuse yourself if he is too long on the phone and he will not call anymore.
He can feel that you are not interested i... (read in full...)
Do you think he will write to me again?
Q. Uh! He's away right now, but before he left he said when he'll be back he was gonna definitely be in touch. We've been keeping in touch for a year and a half now. But with long distance friendship you never know. I like him very so much! That I ...
A. 16 April 2008: Good for you and hope that you will continue to nurture this friendship.
Smile and the whole world smiles with you.
... (read in full...)
Can a woman get pregnant having sex on the first day of her period?
Q. Can a woman get pregnant after having sex on the first day of her period?...
A. 16 April 2008: "When it comes to women and pregnancy anything can happen.
It is supposedly a safe time, but really there isn't a safe time.
I was on the pill and i fell pregnant and to confuse the issue i still had periods!"
-Waterloo Sunset-
... (read in full...)
He wants to be with me 6 days a week and 1 day with another woman!!
Q. I already know the answer here ....just would like some positive words to help get through this... I have been with my boyfriend(X now) for 6 1/2 years...been through the ups and downs, i'm his best friend, I gave him my all - sexually, taken ...
A. 16 April 2008: Some people are like beggars and cannot be choosy.
If you think you are an aristocrat and beneath your dignity ,
send him packing.
... (read in full...)
A one night stand - should I give him a call?
Q. I recently had a one night stand with a man I met at a bar. We were both very drunk. To be quite honest he didn't even know my name until we were finished and I told him what it was. We didn't exchange numbers. Just as I left he said 'call me ...
A. 16 April 2008: If you have difficulty answering that question,
you better call him to clear up this problem..LOL!
Curiosity kills the cat.
If you like him , ask him when you can meet again.
Or maybe you may meet him again in that same bar.... (read in full...)
Can a woman get pregnant having sex on the first day of her period?
Q. Can a woman get pregnant after having sex on the first day of her period?...
A. 16 April 2008: You ovulate 14 days from your 1st day of period.
On the 12th and 16th day is your most fertile period.
The egg can only survive for 48 hours.
Whether you will be pregnant or not depends on those sperms finding the egg.
You have got a h... (read in full...)
I really regret what I did to him, how can I make it right?
Q. Dear Cupid, I have met this guy and we have been together for about a year, and through half the year I sexually cheated on him with my ex and lied. I'm not in love with my ex but i am defintely in love with my guy right now. I was stupid and r...
A. 16 April 2008: Nothing is forever or cast in stones like Moses tablet.
Today's enemies maybe tomorrow's friend.
Life is full of paradox and quirks.
Don't go to him now because he will instinctively run from you .
When he sees you have given up on him, h... (read in full...)
I really regret what I did to him, how can I make it right?
Q. Dear Cupid, I have met this guy and we have been together for about a year, and through half the year I sexually cheated on him with my ex and lied. I'm not in love with my ex but i am defintely in love with my guy right now. I was stupid and r...
A. 16 April 2008: Nobody knows what the future will hold.
Look at the bright side of things.
If he was meant for you , he will come back.
You cannot say there is no more hope.
Hope is there and only if you don't give up.
I am not going to give you any ... (read in full...)
My soon-to-be husband sometimes flirts with women online or on the phone, once even asked out a married woman. Am I denial, minimising the magnitude of his habit?
Q. Me and my bf are in a serious relationship and have plans to get married by hopefully next year. There's one issue that has been bothering me though.. he sometimes flirts with women online or on the phone. He has done this a few times in the past ...
A. 16 April 2008: Men don't come in the package you want.
You need to repackage them.
If you listen to all these women who advice you to dump him,
you will regret big time.
You will be the one who will suffer for it.
It is not that he cannot chan... (read in full...)
My soon-to-be husband sometimes flirts with women online or on the phone, once even asked out a married woman. Am I denial, minimising the magnitude of his habit?
Q. Me and my bf are in a serious relationship and have plans to get married by hopefully next year. There's one issue that has been bothering me though.. he sometimes flirts with women online or on the phone. He has done this a few times in the past ...
A. 15 April 2008: When you flirt with the opposite sex, there is no substance in those words.
They are just empty and flirtatious talk and are not meant to be carried out.
Whatever is said is just said in jest and in a joking manner.
They are not serious ... (read in full...)
How do I conquer the feelings of hurt, jealousy and betrayal? How do I forgive his lies? And what are ultimate relationship deal breakers for you?
Q. What are ultimate relationship deal breakers for you? I ask because I am in love with a man, we have been together for 4 years and those years have been full of great joy and tremendous pain because of things that he has done which hurt me. He ...
A. 15 April 2008: When you love someone a lot , you feel like you are powerless to control anything.
Things are just beyond your control.
The only way I know how you can forgive and heal your hurts
and pains is to allow Jesus to come inside you.
By your o... (read in full...)
I don't believe it when she says she needs space and she's dating someone else! Can someone help me figure this out?
Q. Me and my ex have been going out for a year. She started saying she needs space and I gave it to her and she stop calling me just texting me. But now she's got mad because people are saying rumors about her using me. I spent so much money and ...
A. 15 April 2008: The writings is on the wall , she wants to leave.
Will you be gracious and allow her to leave?
Do you want somebody whose heart is not in it?... (read in full...)
Should I marry my cheating boyfriend? It's not like he gets away with it because I catch him every time!
Q. should i marry my boyfriend of three years? even though he cheated on me numberous times and lied about it and i caught him everytime....
A. 15 April 2008: Is he the only male species in your world?
Why do you settle for someone like him?
What can he offer you ?
If you marry him , every night he will leave you for his
secret paramour and you will be lonesome and cry your heart out at home. ... (read in full...)
My dad is trying to win us over after coming back to my mom...but it's not working
Q. hey im from a broken family my mom dad separated when i was 9, im 12 now and my dad has come back but even though he tries to win us we always end up hating him even more.. why am i feeling this way?...
A. 15 April 2008: The father daughter relationship is always special.
I cannot blame you for your views on your father.
Maybe, time will tell and heal your wounds .
He tried his best and it is not enough , some day when you get
older, you will underst... (read in full...)
He told me he regretted not having a relationship with me, I really want him.
Q. I've known this guy for a year now and we were seeing eachother for a few months. He went back to his ex without telling me! Anyway 9 months later we met up again and we act like we are in a relationship, but he says he's not ready for one yet? But ...
A. 15 April 2008: I think he is still in a dazed and confused state.
Give him more time and space.
... (read in full...)
Will I get pregnant if I keep having unprotected sex? He pulls out!
Q. Me and my BF had sex lots of times without using condom but always when he wants to pull the sperm out he takes his penis out of me, I'd like to know how safe is this from not getting pregnant? I've had sex lots of times with him this way, and I ...
A. 15 April 2008: Having sex with the pull out method is like playing the Russian Roulette or like buying the lotto.
Someday you will hit the target.... (read in full...)
If I have an abortion, is it true that I won't be able to have children in the future?
Q. My B/F and I had unprotected sex, and I'm pregnant but I don't want to keep the baby because I'm only 17. I may sound selfish but I really don't want to, I want to have an abortion but I've heard that after having an abortion there is a big poss...
A. 15 April 2008: It is not true. You can still get pregnant but in some cases
you may face a higher risk of miscarriages.... (read in full...)
Does a man having sex with his wife as often as he wants prevent him from getting it elsewhere?
Q. I was wondering if a woman has sex with her husband every day, or as often as he wants it, will that prevent him from cheating? Or will it at least help in preventing him from cheating? I am not worried that my husband will cheat, but there was a ...
A. 15 April 2008: He may or may not cheat , depending on his religious background or his upbringings.
If certain factors are present , he maybe tempted to cheat or simply too weak and cannot fight those temptations.
Generally speaking , if a man is satisfied , h... (read in full...)
How can I look and feel attractive with out make-up?
Q. I've worn make-up since i can remember, all day everyday, even on holiday. I don't feel comfortable without it on, the thing is, as you can imagine, my skins already becoming quite knackered out already, i have pinkish skin with dark freckles ...
A. 15 April 2008: Eat more fresh fruits and veges and enjoy a simply stress free life ..
Beauty comes from the inside. It radiates from your inside.
Knowing God and having peace in your life will see the glow on your face.
Use less cosmetics because they c... (read in full...)
My dad is trying to win us over after coming back to my mom...but it's not working
Q. hey im from a broken family my mom dad separated when i was 9, im 12 now and my dad has come back but even though he tries to win us we always end up hating him even more.. why am i feeling this way?...
A. 15 April 2008: If your mom can accept him back , you could too but you have build too many defensive walls around you .
You need to take down those walls and feel your father's love for you.
Give him a chance and see him from a new perspective.
... (read in full...)
He was not quite supportive when I told him I cannot climax without a vibrator! Shouldn't he be happy and excited to meet my needs??
Q. I have a problem with my boyfriend of 9 months. Everything in our relationship is great except for the sex. I do enjoy having sex with him very very much, but I can’t orgasm without a vibrator on my clitoris. I don’t know why and I wish it wasn’t ...
A. 14 April 2008: Every man worth his salt would do anything to please their g/f's.
If they cannot do the job, then fire them and get someone who can.
He cannot because he feels the vibrator is a competitor to his manhood.
He is the dinosaur type.
... (read in full...)
He told me he regretted not having a relationship with me, I really want him.
Q. I've known this guy for a year now and we were seeing eachother for a few months. He went back to his ex without telling me! Anyway 9 months later we met up again and we act like we are in a relationship, but he says he's not ready for one yet? But ...
A. 14 April 2008: Since you said he went back to his ex, this means that he is
putting you on 'HOLD!'
Just in case his other relationship does not work out.
Will you accept this situation?... (read in full...)
He told me he regretted not having a relationship with me, I really want him.
Q. I've known this guy for a year now and we were seeing eachother for a few months. He went back to his ex without telling me! Anyway 9 months later we met up again and we act like we are in a relationship, but he says he's not ready for one yet? But ...
A. 14 April 2008: There is nothing you can do when the other person does not want to play the game.
It is like you are riding a horse and along the way you see a very beautiful rose.
You can only view the rose or smell the fragrance and then move on.
If y... (read in full...)
Do you think he will write to me again?
Q. Uh! He's away right now, but before he left he said when he'll be back he was gonna definitely be in touch. We've been keeping in touch for a year and a half now. But with long distance friendship you never know. I like him very so much! That I ...
A. 8 April 2008: Lots of guys say one thing and do another.
Better to see actions than to believe in words.... (read in full...)
I really regret what I did to him, how can I make it right?
Q. Dear Cupid, I have met this guy and we have been together for about a year, and through half the year I sexually cheated on him with my ex and lied. I'm not in love with my ex but i am defintely in love with my guy right now. I was stupid and r...
A. 7 April 2008: All you can do is to apologize to him and stop arguing with him.
The more you argue , the more it will harden his heart.
Whatever he says, just keep silent or say you are sorry.
Just tell him what you did was wrong and you don't know why and h... (read in full...)
Can a woman get pregnant having sex on the first day of her period?
Q. Can a woman get pregnant after having sex on the first day of her period?...
A. 1 March 2008: Your sperm can live inside of her for 5 to 7 days .
So , 7 days before her first day of period and 7 days after is an unsafe period to have unprotected sex.
It does not mean that you will 100% be pregnant during this period. It depends on the a... (read in full...)
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